I'm curious. Me and my husband want to try it and im scared to death? any pointers, thanks in advance.
2007-02-07 05:48:27 · 13 answers · asked by Yummie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go very slow and use a lot of lubrication. BTW I have been told by three different women that the best orgasms they've ever had were while they were having anal sex. Just go slow, don't fight it, relax, concentrate on relaxing while he enters you. Be sure he only goes like an inch at a time and only when you feel relaxed enough for the next inch. Once he's all the way inside wait until you feel you sphincter relax before he slides in and out of you. Don't let him just shove it in and start going to town. Go very slowly and make sure he understands that you are the one to instruct his every move. Don't forget the lube either. KY liquid or Astro Glide are probably the best out there. Have fun, anal sex is one of my personal favorites, (obviously).
2007-02-07 05:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use lots of lube - Gun Oil is a good one and so is Anal-eze.
Start small - one finger at a time until you are comfortable. Go slow and try to relaxt the muscles of your bum the best you can. The head huts the worst then once its in you can begin. Again, go slow until you are comfortable.
Have fun and be safe. Even though its your husband, condoms do make clean-up much easier.
2007-02-07 06:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by buggerhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have him put it in really slow and to be very gentle it will hurt at first but after w while it won't. use lubricant like lotion,baby oil, or some thing like that. have him play with your clit or do it yourself and it will actually feel good after a while. all though when you have to go poop later on that day it feels kinda weird. and I only give my husband that treat once in a while I don't want it to get all loose.
2007-02-07 05:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't sex supposed to be pleasurable?
Well, besides that, try to relax. Its no good if you are all tense.
And, if you are really scared and don't want to go through with it, tell your husband.
--Tamino
2007-02-07 05:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Tamino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with the regular stuff. take it slow, lots of lube. It might help to have a glass of wine, first. I mean drink the wine, not...
2007-02-07 05:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not allow anything so degrading or filthy to be done to you and if your husband insists I would have him prosecuted for attempted rape and sodomy. It is an unnatural act that is disgusting and wrong and you will destroy your own body if you allow it. Those who do participate in this degeneracy are nothing more than diseased perverts who will spend the rest of their lives wallowing in their own waste. It is sick and illegal and no woman can ever enjoy it.
2007-02-07 08:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just make sure you have lots of foreplay and are relaxed, and then use lube. Everything should be fine.
2007-02-07 05:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots and lots of lube and relax
2007-02-07 06:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lube it up well, you may also wanna request that he toss your salad before entry.
2007-02-07 05:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lube lube lube take it slow
2007-02-07 05:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋