i have a crush on this guy but he told me he was gay but then he grabbed my butt yesterday and i am getting the wrong message he says he is gay but he asked me to the dance. what should i do?
2007-02-07 05:31:41 · 17 answers · asked by jazzie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's your BEST FRIEND so by all means go to the dance with him. Why not? The matter of him being gay is debatable though. I am assuming you are both probably teenagers. If that is the case then him being gay is also debatable. Sometimes boys will say that because they may be afraid to get into a sexual relationship with a girl at that age. Others might say it because they really are gay. I doubt that he even knows if he is or not. If he is not messing around with other boys and other boys are not talking behind his back that he is gay then he is probably just scared of sex with a girl or even a relationship that might lead to that. Take the friendship and move on. It'll work out for you. GOOD LUCK SWEETIE.
2007-02-12 11:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did he grabbed your butt? In a sexually way? Just playing around? Perhaps just couldn't resist not grabbing your butt? Regardless of the reason, if he is gay, most likely he wouldn't grab your butt unless you gave him permission to. He may be bisexual, not gay. Believe me, gays with girls, is rare when something like this happens.
About the dance, that shouldn't be a problem, whether he was straight, bisexual, or gay. Anyone can ask anyone else to dance with them. I dance with my best friend, she's a girl, I'm gay, and I don't do it to attract her, or touch her sexually, I do it because it's fun.
2007-02-07 13:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by ОГОНЬ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He probebly is gay. He might have asked you to the dance because he may not want anyone else to know he is gay. Go as friends and have fun! And if he grabs your butt again, tell him you don't want him doing that and that you will kick him in the shin if he does it again!
2007-02-07 14:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take him to the movies and order a large buttered popcorn. Then use your thumb to create a hole in the bottom of the popcorn tub. Once the lights go out in the theatre undo his zipper and grab his man meat. . . insert it into the hole in the bottom of the popcorn tub. Then reach in and enjoy the popcorn! Before you know it his c0ck will be covered in fake butter and salt . . rub it up and down and keep that guy happy! After the movie . . once in the car on the ride home you can get all the butter flavoring and salt off of his member with your lips. This is the best way to insure that you get your man!
2007-02-07 13:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I still don't see the problem
He asked you to a dance so go have fun
If he's gay who cares, he's your BEST FRIEND not your lover.
Plenty of girls can have a male friend without having sex with them or dating them.
Have you seen him with other guys? Do you know for vertain he's gay or is he just teasing you? And if he is SO WHAT go have fun
2007-02-07 13:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like this guy really isn't gay and doesn't want you to know he likes you. OR he could also just be playing you, I would talk to him tell him how you feel and ask him if he really is gay and if he is then how come he is leading you on.
2007-02-13 14:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by yep-it-is-me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he's telling you a joke. However, go with him to the dance and you will soon know. Either way, enjoy having a best friend! If he's straight, the first step to a good relationship is that your partner is your best friend. If he's guy, guy men make the best friends, too!
2007-02-07 13:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by cowboys21angel 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
gay guys can like women that is the thing its ok but you know what if you get involved iwththem its harder then you can bleive. jsut drop out of the stiuation. like him as friend but find another person to lvoe.
2007-02-14 00:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay. Don't get near him like that. Being friends is not an issue.
2007-02-07 13:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Gay guys are guys, too. I don't understand your problem. Just go along with it and see where it goes.
2007-02-07 13:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋