Stage Fright:(?

Question

I Can Honestly Say I Have A Real Phoebia. . . . Stahe Fright:( My deam is to become a singer when im older, and Ive been told by friends I have a great voice but thats there judgement, anyway! Anytime I speek infront of people nvr mind sing, I freak out, I shake with nerves, in all, Im not myself and I know 4 a fact I wont be able to sing, or if i did, my voice would be messed up severely.

Anyone have any past feelinbgs like this, and if so, have u overcome the fear? Feedback greatly appreciated.

One more thing, I cant sing infront of family, dont ask why!

Answer 1

I once took a job that involved lots of public speaking; this was something I'd never attempted before and I was truly frightened. I've always found that the only way of conquering a fear, however, is by facing it head-on, so I prepared myself and practised until I could have recited what I wanted to say on auto pilot! I got through the first time and can't tell you how euphoric I felt afterwards - I was on such a high! I went on to speak publicly 4 or 5 times a week over a period of two years, and although I always experienced a little anxiety beforehand, once I'd 'launched' myself, the nerves left me and I was able to build a rapport with my audience. Remember that no matter how many people you have in your audience, you are communicating with each and every one of them as an individual, and this is very empowering - you will feed off this. I don't know if this will be any help to you, but there's all sorts of tips, further links, etc., on the website below. 'All performers suffer from nerves to some degree. This problem is, in part, the consequence of a sensitive and artistic temperament. You don't have to let the situation control you. Here are some tips on how you can walk on that stage with confidence.......' I wish you loads of luck and the courage to deal with your phobia - please don't let it rob us of your talent. Just had another thought! Have you had a practice run by singing on one of the online karaokes? They're great fun and that might give you more confidence; try Singsnap.com or ksuperstar.com(doesn't cost anything).

Answer 2

I am a professional singer and actor but I do understand what you're talking about. I used to be absolutely petrified. It's usually very individual as to how you overcome stage fright, however, the more you expose yourself to an 'audience' the easier it is to stand up in front of people. If you're old enough to go to a karaoke night then try that, it's very low stakes. Take voice lessons. I actually started singing at church when I was 13 to overcome my fear of being in front of people. For me, it was gradually increasing the number of people I sang in front of and gradually I became totally unfraid. The more you do it the easier it gets. The reason your voice gets 'funny' is that every little stimuli effects the voice i.e your mood, your nerves, what you've eaten so don't feel like you can't overcome it. Definitely, however, look for a vocal coach/teacher, it will do you a world of good. Good luck!

Answer 3

Well, I always wanted to play Kristine from The Phantom of the Opera. It was my dream and I never pursued it. I had a case of the "What ifs?" If I would've put my heart and soul into it I would've done it.

I would suggest, if you really want this, to take some private singing lessons. Maybe get involved with a college that offers Concert Chore as an elective. This way you are singing with a group before you sing solo. It takes the pressure off of you for sure. I was in a concert chore for 4 yrs and really loved it! Then I did a singing and dancing group and loved that!

This will help you build your self esteem up and help you to realize hat you do have a good voice. You will be fine.

Answer 4

I know exactly what you mean! It can be overwhelming. Breathing exercises help and a little yoga helps too. Try just sitting in a comfortable position, closing your eyes and focus on your breath for a few minutes. You can slow down your breathing just a little and it will relax you pretty quickly. I found this to really help before a performance (I'm a pianist). Keep you mind on the music and what you want to convey with it and don't think about being in front of people.

Answer 5

I competed in public speaking when i was in highschool. I did fairly well, but one thing that suprised a lot of people who were interested in that fact about me was that even i was scared. Everytime i had to go up i was scared. Tell yourself I am going to do this. As every second passes it gets easier.

As a spiritual note, you are always speaking in public. What greater audience then God. If you can speak for a greater being with no hesitation, who are these people that you fear?