By having pride in herself, and feeling good about her body - if she doesn't feel sexy herself, she won't think other people can see her as sexy either.
2007-02-07 04:57:25
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answered by thersa33 4
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You need to put your mind in the right place. Sexiness begins with the way you feel about yourself. If you don't like your body for instance- it is completely in your control to change it. Diet has the biggest impact on your body- so throw out all the "garbage" food that you know is bad for you and only buy the nutritious ones. If you only have nutritious food in the house- that's all you have to eat. If you don't feel sexy because you have been playing with the kids all day and taking care of them- then after you put them to bed start thinking sexy thoughts- like the first time you made love to your husband or even the first time you kissed or how turned on you got when he touched you a certain way. If your mind is focused on those things it's hard not to feel sexy.
Another thing that I do that makes me feel sexy is thinking about things that I want "to do " to my husband. You could write him a "dirty" note and stick it in the pocket of his pants when he's going to work in the morning- sometimes a text message works too. If I focus on giving my husband the attention he wants it makes me feel like I am somewhat in control and that makes me feel sexy.
Have sex with your husband every night (seriously every night) for two weeks- You may not like it at first and may not feel like it- but just do it and see what happens at the end. I heard this advice on the radio. You will have an amazing transformation.
2007-02-07 13:04:56
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answered by ♥Humble Proclaimer♥ 4
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she needs to feel confident and sexy. she is the mother of 3 children and hopefully she is still very loved by her husband. She should go buy some beautiful lingerie and dress up for him when the kids are asleep. If she doesn't feel sexy to herself, then she should change things that she doesn't like, start working out and losing the extra weight.
2007-02-07 12:57:05
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answered by wantstoknow 4
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Just take care of yourself and make looking good a priority. If you're overweight, lose weight. Look nice for your husband when he comes home. Don't go to bed in sweats and baggy T-shirts; put on lingerie or something sexy. Just keep yourself fixed up. Having children doesn't mean you have to let yourself go.
2007-02-07 13:25:51
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answered by Anonymous
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It's a mind thing. If you want to feel sexy maybe you should get your nails and toes done, buy some sexy under ware, pamper yourself so that your feel good about yourself. Maybe you could make advances on him, he will love that.
2007-02-07 14:32:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Sexy starts within yourself. When you feel sexy inside then you are confident outside and it shows.
2007-02-07 13:38:03
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answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4
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Work out, go buy some cute cloths, get a makeover and keep up that look. Just because you have children, doesn't mean you have to look like crap. Just learn how to put on a little makeup around your man, and you shoudl feel sexier almost instantly!
2007-02-07 13:28:45
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answered by Pandora 6
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begin to take time for some kind of 30 minute exercise a day or three times a week to start........this will begin to make you feel better about yourself a little cause it all begins with yourself. Then if you have a responding loving partner he will boost your ego by responding to the little things you do different for attention. good luck.
2007-02-07 13:00:07
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answered by beachgirl90 7
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Sexiness can be more about behavior and attitude rather than just looks.
Staying in shape is great. But so is just acting seductive. Just grab him and tell him what you want to do to him.
Then do it.
Rowwr.....
2007-02-07 12:56:40
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answered by fucose_man 5
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Go out and get your hair done and a makeover. buy some new clothes and makeup. you will feel much better about yourself and sexier for your husband. He will love it too!
2007-02-07 12:59:02
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answered by Lady Hewitt 6
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