2007-02-07 04:12:33 · 10 answers · asked by Kedar 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
*SIGH*
I totally understand this question. What I did was try to realize that he didn't feel the same and to just "live with it." I made sure that I spent time with other friends, limited my online chat time, phone calls, and time spent with each other. It took a lot of tears, a lot of pain, and a lot of deep dark thoughts on my part to finally accept him as a friend only rather than the partner I wanted. To this day, I still care about him (it's a long story - we ended up dating then broke up but stayed friends then I dumped him totally because of a comment he made).
If you are going through any of this....for you I am sincerely sorry.
2007-02-07 05:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by behrmark 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a way to get closure and move on and keep your mind active and on other things. It is not fun and it hurts.
Love is a tricky thing - you know all of this and nothing any of us say will really make you feel better.
If it helps at all you have always seemed like a good catch to me. You seem smart and kind and like you have a sense of humor. Those are all qualities someone out there is hoping to find.
Always,
Tab
2007-02-07 12:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Chances are their feelings won't ever just magically change, so think more of yourself, you deserve better, and move on to someone who can care for you the way you care for them. Otherwise, it is not a real relationship, it is just something you have made up in your head. It's a part of growing up that you recognize when it is time to move on with relationships and when something is worth trying for.
2007-02-07 12:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to face rejection, but if the person that you like does not have the same feelings towards you, the best thing is to not pursue it any further, instead you should still stay friends therefore incase things don't work out you still have a friend for support.
2007-02-07 12:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This one is a very tough question... and very hard situation. I know how you feel, I can tell you that, but I can also tell you, that from experience, you can't change them, and that's a very hard thing to go through. If he/she is going to love you, they will, but if they don't love you the same way, you have to just cherish the friendship, and if that's too hard to do, then you have to let them go. It's very hard and I wish you the best of luck!
2007-02-07 12:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would look to find love elsewhere. If that didn't happen then I'd probably have to remove myself from their life so that I can lick my wounds and purge my heart. I would not want to torture myself by ever seeing the untouchable object of my affection and know that my love was unrequited.
2007-02-07 12:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.
Washington Irving
** I realize my quotes can be tiresome. This one seemed appropriate, however.
2007-02-07 12:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
love can suck so bad! if they are taken there is nothing you can really do. if they are single - try try try again. don't get to the point of needing a restraining order but show them how much you would do for them. pray and try that is all you can do.
2007-02-07 12:18:12 · answer #8 · answered by a l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sabrina took the words right out of my mouth.
2007-02-07 12:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone, let them go. If they don't come back, they were never yours to begin with.
2007-02-07 12:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋