i made this guy a bet to see if this guy could go
like 3 months without weed and i lost it so if i lost i have to pic from 3 things... fingering, head,or sex and i chose sex... on friday were going to do it
but he isint forcing me to but i always stick to my word and i kinda wanna but at the same time i dont.im a virgin so he woud be my first and i duno what to do some one hellp&&&
dont be bitchy about it or funny. i want a real answer!!
2007-02-07 04:10:40 · 18 answers · asked by Rae [BRiiNG iiT BACK] 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I NO HE HASENT SMOKED CUZ YA IM NOT DUMB OF CORSE I MADE HIM GET A DRUG TEST...
2007-02-07 04:24:42 · update #1
I would pick something else to do first...you don't wanna lose your virginity on a bet. I mean its gonna hurt...and shouldn't your first time be special...I mean im no one to talk because I was a dumb teen once but when I look back on it, I would have rather it been more meaningfull. And how do you know he didn't smoke during that time? Did you make him take a drug test?
2007-02-07 04:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You should not have sex with this guy unless you are in love with him. Sex is something that is to be shared between two people who love each other and not just because you made a bet. I would never just stick to my word and risk getting an STD or regretting what I did just because of a bet. Tell him you are not the person you thought you were and want to call this off. Your life and virginity are worth so much more than sex because of a bet.
2007-02-07 12:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE listen to my advice! First of all, if any guy thinks that he is going to get some sort of sexual pleasure out of a bet he will do whatever it takes to win the bet. Also, it is possible to pass a drug test even if you are doing drugs (using someone else's urine is one way). And finally, if you have to ask people on Yahoo, that you don't even know, if you should have sex with a guy then that definitely means you should not. I personally think that it is best to wait until you are married, but I realize that many people don't want to do that. So even if you aren't going to wait until you are married, at least be in love with the person you are going to lose your virginity to. You will regret it for the rest of your life if you don't-trust me.
2007-02-07 12:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all iIhave to say is that you can not be 100% positive that he didnt' take drugs for a whole 3 months even if he did take a test. It only takes 24 hours or so for it to get out of your system, so you might be making a big mistake. If you do have sex with him, than I hope that that is what you truely want since it is your first time and is meant to be with someone special to you, not some stupid idiot who does drugs, but I guess that's what you like in a man. If it was me, I would have stuck those drugs who his butt.
2007-02-07 12:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real answer is you wanted it. And to have your first encounter of sex with a person of little significant in your life is sad. You are in need of love and attention which is why you made that bet. Acting as if it's a casual ordeal is why many teens and young girls have unwanted pregnancies and STDs.
I suggest you reconsider. This isn't a game.
2007-02-07 12:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by S H 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do you know this guy went without weed? Did you have him take drug tests periodically the last 3 mos?
I'd tell him that the bet is off since you're no fool!!!
2007-02-07 12:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Cookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You'll regret it if you do, especially once you find a guy who you really click with and the subject of previous partners comes up. It will make you seem easy if you lose it just because of a bet... unless you don't care about what others think. But personally, I'd advise against it.
2007-02-07 12:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a new concept !!
You become a virgin again 24 hours after any penetration; UNLESS you become a mother, your dorky dude is a blabber mouth or you get caught.
But you always have the right by law to say NO.
You have already asked if tampon use takes your virginity away,
so you know it is a technical question.
2007-02-07 12:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its something you will be proud of in the future if you lose your virginity for a bet. Keep it. Tell the guy that you're not going to do it. he probably expects you not to anyway.
2007-02-07 12:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If you do, you'll most likely regret it, especially since you're a virgin. Wait to be with someone because you love them and want to make love. Keep your self-esteem.
2007-02-07 12:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by TeriR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋