I can orgasm other ways, just not by intercourse. I want to so bad through intercourse, but seems any way, any speed, it is just not going to happen and it sucks! Am I the only one like this? Am I not with the right person for me? I love him very much and we have been living together for 2 years now....I dont know what to do...
2007-02-07 03:14:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I know you've heard this before but stop concentrating on cumming while he's inside of you. Let him make you *** during forplay and oral sex and while you are still cumming let him enter you from behind and rub your clit and nipples while her whispers dirty nothings in your ear about how good your tasted while he was eating you, and how good your tight vagina feels around his erect penis. Get caught up in how good his hands and penis make you feel and how much you are rocking his world and your vagina will tighten around his penis,then open up with a gush of wetness that will gladly take the full force of his fast, hard,deep thrust. Your desires will be fulfilled and his ego will get a super big boost. Until that happens Sweetie, just relax and enjoy the ride.
2007-02-07 07:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Nicole,
Relax all wud b just fine. U guys need to have some foreplay and then finally when u are really excited ask your partner to penetrate.Try out some new positions and place to make love. And the most impotant dont have this feeling that u would not have an orgasm,this would mentally effect u and u might not achieve an orgasm. Okay a final thing if he is about to ejaculate but u are far from having an orgasm ask him to withdraw for two three seconds and then continue,by doing this u both can have it at the same time.
All the best,just dont worry ur love would definetly win.
2007-02-07 03:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the more you fret over it the more your chances increases of not achieving it.
Second, MANY women cannot orgasm through vaginal intercourse but only with clitoral stimulation. Others cannot reach orgasms through clitoral stimulation and only through intercourse and many others can achieve both ways as well as anal stimulation.
It has very little to do with your partner, unless of course, he's just not hitting it correct. If you are comfortable with him, then that's not the problem.
You need to relax and enjoy the pleasures. Stop worrying so much of reaching an orgasm and just enjoy the act itself. You may be surprise and it will just happen. But if not, then add clitoral stimulation in the love making.
2007-02-07 03:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by S H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start experimenting with new techniques. LOTS of foreplay works for me, but try not to have an orgasm before you actually have intercourse. Everyone says girl on top works, but it doesn't really work for me, you may be different. Try elevating your hips by putting pillows under your body, or direct stimulation to your clitorus or g spot during or before sex. Just try something that works for you. Make finding a way to orgasm you and your man's goal for one night! Hey it can't hurt!!!
2007-02-07 03:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by owlssoccer_8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to reach orgasms by intercourse yes, i think you haven't found the right way to do it, when you masturbate, do you orgasm? if so, you know the hows and wheres, just put them in practice in intercourse. Tell him where, tell him how... also, you can look for your g-spot, which is about two inches on the front wall of the vagina (inside) it's a somewhat stiffer and bulky area inside. With you on top, with his penis inside, look for it. You can also reach orgasms with mutual masturbation and oral sex... you need to work on this, and don't worry so much, if you do, you keep yourself from orgasm... don't think about it, just enjoy the moment and it will come.
2007-02-07 03:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, most women do not have an orgasm through intercourse alone. It usually takes some form of clitoral stimulation. Have you or your partner use either fingers or a vibrator while you have intercourse.
2007-02-07 03:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not comfortable. You can be with someone for a long time and still be uncomfortable. Make sure you feel sexy, lingerie the whole works. Maybe have a little wine? Anyway, I was the same way BEFORE I met my boyfriend of 2.5 years. The G spot is also hard to find. I suggest trying to find it yourself. Or when you are having sex try and be in a position that you most enjoy.When you feel most excited, try to concentrate most at that moment. I am not sure, but that works for me. Good luck!!
2007-02-07 03:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Noneyabusiness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not alone....I have the same problem. It is extremely easy to give myself one but when it comes to intercourse, forget it. It takes time for you and your partner to know eachothers body. The worst thing you can do is pretend. Let him know what is going on, tell him exactly what you want and he will concentrate more on pleasuring you than himself. If you love him, he's the right one. And if he's willing to try harder you'll know it
2007-02-07 03:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, i could say technically it is the comparable feeling yet there are different aspects that make sexual orgasms extra sensible. For one, only the emotional/actual "interior the 2d" journey of intercourse makes the climax sense lots extra sensible than sitting abode on my own alongside with your hand haha. And 2, being interior a female feels lots extra sensible than your palm : )
2016-09-28 13:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all females can orgasm from intercourse. i never have, really, but what my fiance' does, is when we are having intercourse, he will stimulate my clit, at the same time, and this works. good luck
2007-02-07 19:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋