Why do people pick a question to "answer", then hit below the belt with comments rather than try to be helpful on here, which is what this site is for??????
Why bother if you're just getting on to condemn and judge people instead of answering the frigging questions they need answered?
2007-02-07 03:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by a_lot_smarter_now 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why? Because you're dealing with very young and immature people here as well as mature ones. Just disregard the comments. Those people are most likely kids with no ability to be of help anyway.
keep in mind that this is an open forum as well. People have the right to give you any response they want. You have the right to ignore the ones you don't like.
2007-02-07 03:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by vmmhg 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because unfortunately, many people have extremely low self esteem and make themselves feel better by degrading other people. Because this site is somewhat "anonymous" by everyone using avatars and made up names, it makes it easy for those type of people to rake others over the coals etc.- in their mind, people aren't real until they are sitting in front of them, and when it's "just a computer", they can hit below the belt which to them means they are better than someone else, which is better than being at the bottom of the barrel all alone.
I also think there are many people on here that are too young to be involved in the conversations that happen here. Immaturity also leads to negativity.
2007-02-07 11:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always try to help out when I can. People come to certain locations on this site for serious answers and help, not to be hit below the belt. Some questions are more for joking, but they are located in other sections. In reality, I think people get a kick out of other people's problems trying to escape their own problems. They get carried away and think other people will see it as a funny answer even when it's not.
2007-02-07 11:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jess_DH13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anonymity and boredom seems to bring out the worst in people. A lot of people here act like they are 7 years old and bad! But, sometimes, you do get some compassionate, well thought out answers, too.
2007-02-07 11:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are on a board when the majority of people on here are children or have child like minds. They live for being stupid on these boards where we older people love to help anyone we can with the knowledge we have gotten through our lives.
2007-02-07 11:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know i wonder the same thing i asked women who have breast implants and only women about if they liked them and give details why they get them and I had people dog me out for even asking and telling me i was selfish and all kinds of crap i say fu#k them sometimes i am critical but don't try to hurt someones feelings or be rude they are fuc#ing hipocrits......
2007-02-07 11:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me this is more of a rhetorical question! :) I think those people think they are better than everyone else. They want to make people feel stupid so they feel better. And there are just some really dumb people out there. I am sure they think they are funny when really it is just sad. Unfortunately they will always be around so we reasonable people just have to ignore it.
2007-02-07 11:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kipers 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people just gotta a**holes and this is a good place to do it. If they did it in their real life they would probably not live long. It goes with the anonymous territory.
2007-02-07 11:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because its good to be honest and root out the truth. With a lot of these questions you can read in between the lines and tell what the person is really thinking.
The truth hurts.
2007-02-07 11:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok: there's certain things that yourself must understand we'd
are here to help others with their own problems and yes it gets
solved real easy! because where as "Orginizations "fit in
much greatness all ways trusted people wants "Advices " from
us but you'd need some good "Counsiling or Support Group
refer http://www.orginization.counsiling.supportgroups.com
2007-02-07 11:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋