people talk sh*t to me all the time saying that bi-sexual is point-less well i am and i dont think its point-less. they tell me to pick a side well i like both i shouldnt have to explain my decisions to anyone. i like guys and girls i dont understand why people do this. its not their life so why do they care
2007-02-07 03:01:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i personally dont believe that people are bisexual....i think guys who like guys are gay and girls who like guys are straight...but do whatever you want, crap if you want to start having sex with fake plants its your life
who gives a rats a.ss what anyone thinks.....you do what makes you happy and whatever gets you off on any given day
2007-02-07 03:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Huh? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you are living in a world where most people want to eventually pair up as couples, gay or straight, and develop a love and a life together as they grow older. Bisexuals seem to have "the best of both worlds" only if it stays on a sexual level. Any bisexuals I've ever met have a difficult time staying in committed relationships because they always end up craving the other gender, and they expect their partner to be ok with their desires and love triangles. People tend to view that as selfish and unreasonable. Bisexuals call people closed-minded if they don't go along with having another lover on the side! I personally would not stay with a woman if I had to share her with a guy. I know bisexuals cannot help their attractions, but I do not believe anyone will be successful in a lifelong comittment unless they pick one or the other. Relationships last in pairs - not in triangles.
I'm gay and I am not trying to offend you - I'm just trying to explain and try to answer your question.
2007-02-07 11:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As open minded as our society is suppose to be, a great majority of people still have a problem with people who are gay. So bi's must be that much more threatening, having the courage to say, hey, I like both, when most people don't have the courage to stand up for anything, I guess bi bisexuals, would seem intimidating or threatening. I don't know, like someone else before me on here said, it does sound like you probably need to hang out with different people. A friend, or anyone who truly cares about you, won't judge you or put you down. As far as my friends are concerned, their happiness and well being is what's most important to me. Good luck in life and try to ignore all the negatively ignorant people out there!
2007-02-07 11:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by 77chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel most people that claim to b bi-sexual are in some sort of limbo. I knew a girl that was supposed to be my best friend(im a guy). After knowing her for like 2 years she told me. I thought wow she is gay no wonder this friend thing worked out. But I felt sorry for her not feeling it was OK to tell me earlier. And it kind of made me feel she was a little shady or sketchy if you know what i mean. If you are openly bi to everyone than you are probably bi. But if you tell only a few people you are bi than well you are probably gay. If you mom doesn't know then I feel you are probably gay.But then again I don't know you so whats my opinion matter?
2007-02-07 11:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Peole always talk crap about what they don't understand. The sad part is that especiallt for girls bi-sexual has been seen as something girls " do " to get attention or to appeal more to guys.
The truth as you and I both know is that you enjoy both sexes.
Its not that they care in anyway, to other girls your seen as a threat..because guys seem to think bi-sexual girls are a lot more fun..you know the whole fantasy in real life thing.
Now obviously I'm not talking about all guys or all girls, but I have seen enough of it to know that a lot of them think this way.
Remember its your life who cares about what everyone else thinks..just because they are unhappy with themselves and their lives they choose to hopefully bring others into their woe.
Don't let them.
2007-02-07 11:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand it (bisexuality) mainly because I'm not,so I can't relate to what you're going through.But I've known one transgendered person who expressed simular frustrations in dealing with other people who were quick to judge.The way I see it one's sexuality and genger prefrence is one's own business and no one elses,and personally I am put off by those that feel they have to tell the world,it's a private thing,and private doesn't necessarily mean shameful.It simply means it concerns no one else except those you chose to be with and love.Being straight,gay,lesbian,bisexual,or whatever.Why do you feel you have to explain anything? what you do is your own business and if it harms no one and everyone is consentual adults,it really doesn't concern others.
2007-02-07 11:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dun even be bothered bout their comments. No one in this world is in any position to say what's right & what's wrong. Let alone states that it is pt-less to be a bi. U shld ask them wad do they mean by pt-less.
Its totally fine being a bisexual. My perception is that all females r born as bi. Its either they act on it or become les. Those who says they r straight, i thk they r usually in self denial. Just do wad u wan, dun give a damn bout others. Whoever come askin u to choose, ask them to get a freakin life man...
2007-02-07 11:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by edit_bite 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In all honesty, God made us male and female. If God made only males or females then God would have given the male or female both sexual orgins, thus we would be only inpregnating ourselves. This would eliminate the need to be having sex with a male or female because again we all would have both sexual organs. The driving force would only be for our desire or want to have sex and not the need. God did not make us male and female for just sex, but in marrage to have children and rase them under the guidence of God. If two females or males desire to have chidren how would they get pregnant? There is adoption, but what if there were no males or females wanting to give up their babies? Listen, I love you all. I can't decide anything for any of you and I do not judge you, but listen to God. God is the only one who has the right to judge. God bless amen.
2007-02-07 13:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Joe_Kool 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because people who try and tell someone else how to live their life is unhappy in their own life. awhy would being bi be pointless? thats what you like. so if it is what you like and enjoy then it can not be pointless. only to other narrowminded morons. I am a lesbian and I know that there are st8 people as well as gay people who bash bisexuals like this. it is your life, you live your life the way you see fit..
2007-02-07 11:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because people are afraid of the unknown or anything different. Like you say, it's your life and you shouldn't feel the need to defend yourself, your decisions or your actions. Blow people off if they can't accept you for who you are.
2007-02-07 11:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by Libby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why for sure but i think it is just againist their norm. if you are straight and you see a guy and another guy kissing it might be wierd to you. same thing with some skinny people and fat people, goths and other people, some blacks or other races and whites, believers and non believers etc;
forget anybody who cant except you for who you are.
keep living however the fu*k you want.
2007-02-07 11:07:38 · answer #11 · answered by tinker_bell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋