My ex broke up with me about 9 months ago. He had a fiance in another country the whole 18 months we were dating, He shocked me maybe two weeks before he was going to get married and finally told me the truth. Long story short, when I see him lately he has been staring at me and making sexual comments & jokes. He gets jealous when he over hears a guy give me a compliment. He's a manager in a store close to my house. I guess he over heard me talking to a male friend on my cell phone while I was waiting in line at the check out and he started yelling at his customers as if he was taking out his frustrations on them. I havent been saying anything to him. I dont hate him any more, I'm just letting him live his life. A few people noticed that he has been coming to work overly dressed with nice clothes on. I have a very strong inclination that he is still interested. But I am offended by the thought of it because he totally dissed me for this other woman. So why does he care about what I do?
2007-02-07 02:47:18 · 17 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well he wants to have his cake and eat it too. It's not about you, it;s about his ego. You deserve to ignore him, and make him feel like the jerk he is. He shouldn't have led you on like that, and then drop this bomb at last minute, it was beyond mean. So if you give in, he wins, if you don't you win, and don't get taken by a selfish jerk.
2007-02-07 02:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a nutshell-it sounds like he wants his cake and eat it to. He decieved you the whole time you were together, dissed you two weeks before marrying the other gal, and probally never told her about you at all. He may have real feelings, but steer clear if so. Your bieng offended is a good thing. Try telling him, blunt but nicely, you are not interested, and go enjoy his life with his wife. He made his bed, he needs to sleep in it now. Without you, or trying to make you feel something you obviously don't
2007-02-07 10:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by just a thought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as he goes, he is just a womanizer that can't stay true to any woman. As far as u go, I think u like the attention. First of all, do u have to go to the store he works in?? And as far as the cell phone convo, he can't hear the other end of the conversation, so u must make your end pretty interesting to try to make him jealous. You have to think why would u keep putting yourself in that position to be around him? You need to move on and stop playing games.
2007-02-07 11:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps flirting with you because he can and because he is being a selfish pig. Why are you even taking this garbage from him? Walk away from this guy and have nothing more to do with him. You will be better off for it. You really need to move on with your life without him in it. Trust me this is the right thing to do. You also should tell his fiance about it too if you can contact her in any way. He does not deserve either of you and both of you deserve WAY better then him.
2007-02-07 10:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a liar and not worth your time and energy. Ignore him, You should find a guy who loves you and only you and that you can trust. Tell the other guy he is a liar, Some people always want what they can't have. Stay away from the store he works at, That way you can't be tempted or coerced into somethinh will regret later.
2007-02-07 10:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a jerk! He has a major character flaws. Stay away from him. I would just ignore his sexual comments and if they continue tell him that it is not appropriate and you will report him if it continues. He had his chance with you. He chose the other girl and married her, now he has to live with this. Don't even think about him anymore. If he gets jealous of you with other men too damn bad he made his bed now he has to lay in it.
2007-02-07 10:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a typical man they are always on the prowl and planning ahead . They kind of like to have a spare ready just in case!
2007-02-07 12:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he passed u over for her than he made his choice, and now he may be regretting it. but i would be offended as he thinks u have no self worth and that u will take him back just like that, married or not. but he made his bed chose her, i would say it is a little too late.
2007-02-07 11:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! He just wants what he used to have. What a sad sack of poop.
Also, he is probably bent b/c you don't hate him anymore.
Be glad to be gone, he sounds like a butthole
2007-02-07 10:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by girl_with_the_most_CAKE2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him...let him make a decsion..either he wants u or his wife...cause in this way he's ruining his,yours and the other womens life...and if he chooses her..don't get bothered by his comments..go ahead and live ur life..ignore him
2007-02-07 11:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by anusha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋