if u is still in love with your ex should u tell your new boyfriend?

Answer 1

I think that you should not have a serious boyfriend if you still have feelings (love) for your ex. That makes the new boyfriend a "rebound" This only leads to hurt, and why hurt the new guy just because he likes you. Don't rush into the arms of someone else until your heart heals. Its not fair to him. We all have done it, thinking that the best way to heal a broken heart is to move on, and its not. The heart needs to heal, you need to grieve. Someone once told me that losing a relationship is like someone dying. It truly is. When someone dies you grieve and mourn, then when you are ready to love again, you will know. Don't hurt the new "him" because the old "him" is gone

Answer 2

First of all, u shouldn't have a serious bf if u r stil in love with ur ex.
But if u do, telling ur new bf tht u r stil in love with ur ex is the probably the last thing u should do. No guy would ever tolerate it. We could maybe take it if u had a little crush on a new guy, but definately not if its ur ex..

Answer 3

think this is something u should keep to yourself, some things are best left unsaid, because by now your ex has most likely moved on, and there is no future with them anymore. u feel this way as u did not take the breakup well and most likely have not yet been able to move on. but don't ruin a new relationship over something u can't do a thing about, or over a man who will ever be in your life again.

Answer 4

wow this is a sticky one,,,,,,,
well lets address the situation,,, only tell him if u are suyre that u n ur ex will have no form of intimate relations,, ,(meaning u will avoid being alone with himm -all meeting must be in public places)
but if u cant guarantee hiom this then dnt tell him,,, also dnt if hes a needy insecure whimp *** ***** (sry)

Answer 5

just dun stead with him coz it'll hurt him.it is unfair to do tt.but wad to do,u're in love with ur ex.if u love ur ex jus pursue for ur own happiness.try to win it back instead of finding a spare tyre.this will bring u to nowhere if u running away frm reality.

Answer 6

Why do you have a new boyfriend if you're still in love with the other one? Dump your current one, he deserves better.

Answer 7

yes. It's only fair. Maybe if you still love your ex, you should not date yet.

Answer 8

NOOO! He'll never let you forget it and if by any accident the ex calls you then he will flip out and call you a whore! Anyway that's my experience.

Answer 9

you know what if you are not feeling this other guy then maybe you you should so neither one of y'all be looking for some that's not there. be up face and honest.