Is it normal for a married man to constantly look at girls around even when we are out together?

Answer 1

Anyone can look. The problem becomes if it's in a disrespectful manner. I try not to even look when I'm in my wife's presence. Even when she's not around it's just a quick glimpse at the most.

We both are 45 and my wife is the woman of my dreams. She's still looks wonderful to me and that's whats important to me.

You should tell him if its upsetting you. He should have enough respect for you to refrain from glaring at other women.

Answer 2

Being married has nothing to do with it. All men are visual beings and we like to look. Don't take it personal. Women are the ones that compare each other. Your man doesn't see that other woman and think, gee she looks better than my wife, wish I was with her. Thats what women assume and its wrong. We do look often, and yes probably too much but I bet you've noticed at least one hunky looking man across the room before at some point in your marriage?

Answer 3

No it is not normal for a married man to constantly look at girls, more so when he is with his wife.On the contrary it is the women who look at other women.

Answer 4

usually a smart man trys to control this urge when he is with his wife. I see these kind of men all the time when I am out, even at the grocery store. I always feel sorry for the wife. I think some men just look like a ***** dog when they act like that. It makes you sick I know and it probably makes other women sick as well.

Answer 5

Well if by normal you mean "common", then yes.
But if by normal you mean "healthy", than NO.
There are many reasons he shouldnt do it, and he cant turn it around on you and say youre just jealous---
a true man would wait untl he is ready to settle to marry;
he would cherish and honor who he chose;
he would reserve himself (eyes included) for his woman only;
he would at least refrain while she is around out of respect for her feelings;
he would not mock her in public by looking at other women in public-- you know, if you see him doing it, so does everyone else-
he would not think of women as pieces of meat to be observed for his own pleasure but as humans
he would not disrepect other women in public by drooling over them-- do you know how rude it is to be looked at like that??

And the list goes on and on- he is at SERIOUS fault here for doing what he does. I dont care how many jackass*** do the same thing, that doesnt make it right!!!

Answer 6

It's wrong only if you feel disrespected, start checking other men out and see how he feels.(make comments to him about the men your checking out.)
Better yet, ask why he looks at other women, ask him what they have that you don't. He may be doing this because he feels that there is some thing lacking in your relationship.

Answer 7

Yes, this is very normal. It means that he is not satisfied with you...

If he was totally pleased by your appearance, he wouldn't have to look at other girls...

Thanks for the thumbs down! I never said it wasn't disrespectful...was just being honest in my answer.

Answer 8

I think the urge is normal, but to do it in front of you is very rude. Dont nag him ..but I would change how you react to it. He might do it just because it give him a bit of emotional power over you. Start acting like you dont care so much..maybe point a few out to him..lol..no im kidding..maybe start looking at guys..its rude..so maybe he needs some of his own medicine. Its disrespectful for him to do that to u..disrespectful to your feelings.

Answer 9

Yes

Answer 10

There is no normal or not normal for it. If both of u r comfortable with it, then it shouldnt b any problem. If either of u (in tis case, is u) not comfortable with it, let him knows abt it. U'll know how 2 deal with after tat.