what about being in love with a christian and they will only accept you if you have god in your life?

Answer 1

with or with out the love of this christian, you NEED God in your life.

Answer 2

I'm a Christian and I agree that you want a mate that you believe will be with you in heaven. That's a huge thing, it has nothing to do with Christian's being compassionate. There is a difference between loving people and sharing the rest of your life with someone. I think that's true with more things than religion. Everyone has standards of what they want in a companion, whether it be children, how many children, money, career goals. You can't judge someone for having an idea of what their perfect companion would be. It would be different if you were just aiming to be friends.

Answer 3

Move on, this will not work out. My ex was the same way. I am an atheist, and though she said at the beginning she could accept it, it surfaced fairly quickly. I spent three years going to church every sunday just to appease her. I sat there and just picked apart what the pastor had to say.

Then, I finally put my foot down, and stopped going. You will notice that I started this answer with "my ex". Just end the relationship. The christian in the relationship will always try to convert you.And, if you don't, there will always be resentment for not converting.

Answer 4

There is a reason why the bible calls Christians to be "equally yoked" my man. Spirituality is a huge dimension to a relationship. It determines how you are going to run your household, ie finances, kid raising, personal relationships, politics, and if you can't see eye to eye on these things then its not going to work. I was in a reverse situation. I am a Christian who married a non-christian and in the end she ended up leaving because we couldn't connect on that level. Bottom line is they believe differently then you. Best thing to do is find someone who believes the same things as you, or maybe seek out Christianity and see if it is something you want...its one of the greatest things in my life!!

Answer 5

Think about it. They will only accept you if you have THEIR god in your life. That ain't love bud. Give it a rest. You'd be better off with a hell bent for leather street **** than one of these goody two shoes god lovers. They ain't interested in the freedom it takes to really get out there and have a life, they are interested in obedience. If your a full blown masochist and are comfortable with the walking dead religion these cats espouse go for it. Just cut out half your brain, you won't need it. You'll have it neat in their little rule book.

Answer 6

I hope you do let God in your life, but don't do it just for a relationship with another person.
If you're going to fall in love with a Christian, you don't want a wishy-washy one do you? This person is insisiting he/she can only date a Christian because the Bible says a believer and unbeliever should not be yoked together in marriage. He/she is practicing what he/she preaches.

Answer 7

Of course with or without ...this Christian you need God in your life...

But how did you fall in love ?Did you know it is a Christian?

Then ..does this Christian really loves you ?

I want to tell you that you must see if it's really a Christian .Because if it 's a really Christian ...you have to marry .This Christian won't sleep with you if you don't marry her/him.If it's e real Christian.Obviously if he/she doesn't marry you and accept to have sex with you , it means he/she accepts you as a temporary temptation (coming from satan), and that he/she agrees to sin.Or maybe he/she likes you , want to get marry to you , and accepts to sleep with you first , this , just in case he/she is half Christian.

Christians are some who happily accept to die then do things against the reason of God ...

Besides ..I know they are very attractive ..because they are very aware of what love is...they are not about sex , they are about love...And love is something bigger , higher , brighter , then sex..actually love is a kind of life...Christians are in love along the whole life...with thier partener...They live in love ..,from love ..and love means ...being mild , good, right , having reason , resulting you are a beauty...like an angel...Christians are some who love somebody ...very important ..This is God..Their Father...and Jesus ...the Higher Brother , and the Holly Spirit...maybe a kind of Uncle...the Blessed Virgin ..like a Fairy and their mother...the angels ...Loving such perfect Beings ..imagine that a Christian cannot fall in love with a ..man full of vices...So ..if this Christian loves you , perhaps he/she is about to sacrifice herself..and marry you...because she /he loves you...it results it is not sacrifice...God is somebody above ....is not sacrificed...so all is between you and he/her .(I don't know if you are a boy or a girl).So if you are ready to love her/him and not consider him/her fanatic , mad etc..for believing in God , if you give her./him value ...for his/her faith, go on ..take her/him If you are going to sincerely love her/him go on ..you can do it..if you are ready not to betray him/her go on..it is a good affair ...if you consider him/her like a king /queen as all the ordinary people are considered , go ..on ...it is a happy thing that you met a Christian...so he/she awaits that you shall go on the true way..I am married , but now ...after this experience , I woudn't marry a man who is not Christian in his soul...deep inside...But you see ..if God allows it ...be happy ...you can do it...Even my husband ..sometimes ...behave better then the Christians , meaning he is a hidden Christian inside who doesn't betray like other Christians outside ..do betray..their friends..etc

Answer 8

It is very important to have God in your life, I am a Christian and I know that I could never date anyone if they didn't have God in there life, but what you can try to do is except God into your life and not only gain the love of your girlfriend/boyfriend, but the love of Christ.

Answer 9

Yea, what about that? That's the Christian way, I mean, given that you're either related or seeking a serious relationship. If you just want to be friends and get some conversion talk every once and awhile, yea, they'll accept you hahaha. Right.

Answer 10

often times if we would seek a mate who had some knowledge or fear of god, might mean u could expect a more faithful mate with higher morals and better character. actually i think it is a good idea when seeking a mate.