a guy i work with sent me a joke e-mail and all of the sudden he thinks im cheatin do we have a chance? i cant get over the thought of him goin through my things!he even looked up the guys last name in the phone book and called everyone with that last name try to confrnt this guy! what do i do ????
2007-02-07 01:05:41 · 7 answers · asked by winnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Discuss this issue with your husband asap. And assure him, that he's the most important person in your life and you love him most than anyone else.
It should settle his doubts and try to avoid your male friends for time being so as to smoothen your relationship for now, as it's of utmost importance for your family. Try to normalize the situations after some time, may be your husband would understand it that time, when he's sure about your commitment in the relationship.
2007-02-07 01:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ankur Jain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say either he has very little self esteem -if that's not the case .I'd say he has a guilty conscious ? It's one or the other . They always say if a man dont trust you ,it's because he has messed up somewhere along the lines . Good Luck Swettie
2007-02-07 01:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by miabear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is a bad thing, but look on the good side, he's still makeing an effort to be your guy and 25 yrs later hasn't said the heck with it , you do what you want , I'm out of here.
2007-02-07 02:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by ritelec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband may have some trust issues from a past relationship or from childhood, that he never resolved. maybe therapy could help u and your husband. he is overly sensitive to anything that concerns other men, is insecure, and thinks this man is a threat to his marriage.
2007-02-07 01:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are not cheating and didn't do anything to allow for your husbands behaviour, I would think speaking with a mental health professional might be a good idea. He sounds paranoid and irrationally so.
2007-02-07 01:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like he has trust issues with you . i would reccomend now hiding your purse at night . Omg he called the guy and confronted him ? my good ness he sounds like he needs counseling for trust issues. good luck.
2007-02-07 01:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO TRUST = NO MARRIAGE
2007-02-07 03:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋