Im a 18yr old crossdresser and I recently realised that Im gay. I have a gf at the minute but were not going to last for that much longer as were both going away to uni. Should i stick with her untill I go to uni while im still confused. Or should I split up with her and try to get a gay experience before Ieave for uni. Any help would be great.
2007-02-07 00:36:36 · 9 answers · asked by weirdlittlebritain 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think for you to be single for a little while will be good for you,,if you are confused,, you need time to sort out your thoughts
2007-02-07 08:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by bannantynegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to dump her and get some experiences, if you break it off gently then you could got have some fun and then if you change you mind you could always go back. You only have one life to live and you don't want to never know what you prefer! Go with your heart, I would say have some fun!!!
2007-02-07 08:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're confused you need to explore. That's just about all there is to it. As far as the gf goes, be honest about your confusion. She may be hurt but she will appreciate the honesty more as anyone would. I don't envy you the task though. Good luck.
2007-02-07 08:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY. what if i told you you were two people? have you noticed that you can't resist dressing up as a crossdresser? i'd ask if you wanted to go gay but you'll say yes. if you don't want to go gay but feel like you are in every way possible your brain got hijacked by an entity (seriously). it's consuming all of your being. you feel like it's your responsibility
to dress up in drag yet you have no reason to do it in the first place. you need to take a good look in the mirror and threated yourself with death (to your feminem side) because your feminem side is winning against your strait side. it's a mental battle. it will scar you - i'm telling you the truth in every word i speak. LOOK I'LL PROVE IT! there's not a day you don't want to dress like this. you will lose everything your strait side worked so hard to gain for himself. you'll lose freinds, you'll lose family. you'll be seen as an outcast because the homosexual entity manifested in your body, mind, and soul - i am telling you the truth honest to god. although i'm an athiest. you need two imagine your strait side and feminem side. go to the mirror. if you noticed you look gay (really look it) and feel the impulse to obey it - that's the feminem side looking strait back at you. please take me seriously. fight it! fight it fight it! before you lose yourself completely and give in to anything it wants...
2007-02-07 08:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know you are gay, you will only hurt the girlfriend. Break it off and find someone that will make you happy after you move
2007-02-07 10:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break up with her, and be honest about it. I think then you should get yourself together before you get involved with someone else. "Try to get a gay experience" is demeaning, people are not experiences.
2007-02-07 08:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get experience first and eat her on the side....but, get real anal experience with her too, with straps and fake *****...
2007-02-07 09:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lic. York 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with her
2007-02-09 03:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shut up *****
2007-02-07 08:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by doublekill3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋