I am a guy 21yrs old. I am in situation to marry soon. May be at the age of 24 or 25. But I am feeling guilty that it is much earlier for a guy. Guide me. Tell me which is the right age for a guy to marry...
2007-02-07 00:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by Danndy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
not before you're 30, or you're pretty sure you're mature enough and know the full responsibility you're getting yourself in before that age....
Best wishes though...
2007-02-07 00:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im saying 23- 24 that way you can see if you are really right for each other. since you are in your early 20s, you probably are going to want to wait sincew its possible that once you get older and more mature you find that you either made a big mistake, went o soon, found someone else, cant afford anything you want. end up with a different life you didnt want. or you could find out that you really cant stand each other. you might get tired of each other fast. i think you should wait. talk to her bout it, see if she feels the same way. may be ask to hold off the wedding for a bit, like may be a year, or to save up more, or to see where it goes first, tell her bout all the bad things that could happen if you do this ow. what if u have a kid and u cannot afford to buy the baby all the stuff it needs? then you might not be able to live in a new house that u want to live in because u will be paying for the baby and your university or college money. what if you are both in school still and you need a baby sitter! thats even more money unless it can stay with the grandparents
if there is no kid then it might still be hard since you might not see each other to often because of your job and your schooling and homework. you might drift, and not be able to handle each other anymore or lose your feelings towards them. think bout it first plz! :)
2007-02-07 08:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by jada jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only for guys but for girls as well,
The right age for getting married is when they can afford a decent living and not want support from parents.
When they have sufficient responsibility as to raise a family, bring up children with love and concern.
When they find "the one" and are sure they can live happily.
It is true you are very young , at your 21, for marriage. Wait, as you say until 25 and if you still want to get married to the same girl, go ahead. (as above!!)
2007-02-07 08:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am 34, a girl ...and I think the age to marry is 22, 23.
2007-02-07 08:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Cristina M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Bro in law married at 24-25. My soon to be bro in law will get married I think at 23. Hope that helps (I hate when people say that, sorry)
2007-02-07 08:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Link 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt really say there is a specific or right age...
it depends on your willingness and if you feel ready to get into marriage and all it involves. one needs to know about what they're getting themself into and the pro's and cons and if they'll be able to handle them with the life partner (whom you will hopefully know well), they have chosen...
it seems you arent ready yet, but maybe you'll change your mind by that age. you need to be ready in all aspects, especially mentaly... why do you want to marry and are your reasons solid. but good luck with the future, mwah!!!!
2007-02-07 08:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Reb Da Rebel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get married at 20, your gonna be surprised with who your living with at 30.
2007-02-07 08:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into anything. There is no right or wrong age. It depends on you and how you feel about your partner.
2007-02-07 08:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by badboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right age is when youre READY to marry.
2007-02-07 08:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Chastons Wifey♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who's 2 say what's right or wrong!
2007-02-07 08:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by ONEMIND 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋