I am a guy 21yrs old. I am in situation to marry soon. May be at the age of 24 or 25. But I am feeling guilty that it is much earlier for a guy. Guide me. Tell me which is the right age for a guy to marry...
2007-02-07 00:21:34 · 8 answers · asked by Danndy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The right age to marry = when a man is ready to accept the responsiblity and let go of being single. If you are ready to devote yourself to a wife and let go of all the "single guy" stuff, then you are the right age, but if you still want to "explore" and live the single life, then you should wait. It will only hurt her if you aren't ready.
2007-02-07 00:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A wise man waits until he has followed his dreams and travelled and saved money and matured. THere is no real age thats good or bad. Its a matter of are you willing to be accountable, committed fully to a life time with the girl you love, honest, sincere, faithful and true, supportive of her, willing to encourage her when shes down, prepared to reach out to her and regualrily tell her you love her, and show her respect, willing to sort things out that come up and in a dignified way? If she gets ill or disabled will you still respect and love and support her? Are you willing to go that extra mile for her? Marriage is a commitment and requires love and complete dedication from both parties. If you cannot do all those things wait, because you are not ready. It sounds great but marriage is hard work. Its not only sex and if that is what promotes the wedding you are in lust and not in love!!!
STOP LOOK HARD AND LISTEN TO SOUND ADVISE!!!! Oh and when you marry the wife, you marry the family as well!!!
2007-02-07 08:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not before you ar 30 .. it will take untill you are 22ish to finsih your education then 5/6 years of job & travelling .. you just can't get into a relashionship & know that it will work .. spend some time with the person .. I can safely say that it has best chances to work when you are in 30es .. early 30s ..
There is no rush .. you are just 21 .. work play & enjoy your single life .. when the right women will come along, you will feel the need to give your relashionship a name ..
All the best
2007-02-07 08:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until 25 or 26. Make sure that you have dated a decent amount of women and that she is definately the one. Don't do it because she really wants to or family is putting the pressure on you. Take this time, play the field and wait as long as possible.
2007-02-07 08:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Luva Luva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once again age doesnt matter...its all about if YOUR ready and if YOUR partner is ready. you both have to be capable and mature to handle married life. Alot of people keep talkin about u have to be 26 shyt please...i know 30 year olds who cant even take care of themselves so age dont mean nothin!! follow your heart!
2007-02-07 08:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know guys that have gotten married at 20, and still with their wives (25 years later, wife was also 20 at the time) i know guys that get married at 30 and the marriage lasts for max 5 years. it depends wat kind of person you are. are u ready for married life?
2007-02-11 07:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by vale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the longer you wait the better chance you
have of having your maggage work
2007-02-07 08:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the guys is mature enough to handle it.
2007-02-07 09:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋