he's rude to me, swears at me...doesn't listen
2007-02-07 00:06:37 · 8 answers · asked by dani b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give him the same treatment or ignore him until he can talk to you with love and respect.
All you need to do for him (while he treats you badly) is feed him, give him clothes to wear and shelter - DON'T do anything special.
Good Luck!
2007-02-07 02:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Only Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you beat his @$$, you know you caused this, by not putting him in his place aty an early age. A lot of you parents think its cute when your child does little mean things or you don't correct them then they grow up to turn into monsters. I bet someone had been telling you this all along and now that the smoke screen is clear you're finally realizing it b/c he don't respect you.
Its gonna be hard, but you can do it. You've created it and now you have to deal with it. You need to let him know just how crazy you are then he'll respect you.
If this doesn't work you need to take all his clothes, put them in a bag and put em out on the lawn. Tell him since he's grown he can go live his life as a grown man, he needs to find his own way to school his own house etc..
2007-02-07 00:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therefore he is a perfectly 'normal' teenager who has hormones raging through him, growing up, can't wait to grow up, and is more than likely looking at you like you are the stranger and always in the wrong. My daughter started that crap when she turned 12, she's finally 15 and slowly (and I mean sllooowwwwwwwly) maturing. He'll get there eventually, and all you can do is tell him in a calm mature manner that you will give him space and respect when learns to respect you.
Other than that, there isn't much more you can do. Again, it's hormones, and until they calm down, he won't.
2007-02-07 00:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the parent, he doesn't have to respect you, he has to listen to you. You punish him somehow, and if he's learning the rudeness and language from you, then you need to quit it yourself. You also need to listen to him, maybe he's trying to get attention from you. He's a teenager, and in case you haven't noticed, most teens aren't very good at respect these days. You've got to take the stand. Good luck and God bless!
2007-02-07 00:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has not just started, It is going to be hard. but you have to work on this. Sit him down, and tell him, what you are not going to tolerate out of him. Tell him you are the parent, and that he has to respect you. Say from now on we are going to respect each other. And the bad language, is not to be used. That is a person who has a poor vocabulary, so their for you need to learn new words! And what I say goes. Now if you can't get him to go along with this, then he may need to go into counseling! Or talk to his guidance counselor, to see what suggestions they may have. But you have to work on this, and so does he. He has to learn to take orders from someone!
2007-02-07 00:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock him in his room with NO phones, computer, games nothing...and make sure the windows are locked too.
2007-02-07 00:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by ^..^ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
knock his smart-mouthed *** out! u brought him in2 this world; u can take him out! that's y y'all's kids are in the basement buildin' pipe bombs and/or shootin' their classmates in the schools--2 lenient on their asses w/that time-out crap!
2007-02-07 00:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by VioletDC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a foot in his a## !!!
2007-02-07 00:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by major b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋