Why does sometime it become difficult to understand our parents?

Question

I sometime get dispute with my parents ?
any solution????????

Answer 1

Parents probably come from a different generation than you and were brought-up stricter and more rules and rugulations. They probably love you very much and think they are doing the best for you. Unfortuneately, few parents get instructions on how to raise children. When you argue with them just remember that they think they are doing the best for you and try and back off and discuss the problem at a later time when everyone is relaxed. You maybe able to come to a compromise that is suitable for you and your parents.

Answer 2

We're the same. Sometimes I also cant understand my parents.
I feel so bad when we have an argument because even when it only starts from a simple sentence, even a joke, My mother takes it seriously. Then it becomes a big matter and we begin to quarrel. sometimes I think my mom's pride is too high because she doesn't want to admit that she's wrong.... there was also a time when both my parents treated me badly, my mom slapped my face, pushed me away and even pulled my hair just because of talking back. and my dad, also thinking I was talking back, boxed me two times. and they both shouted at me. (p.s.- I'm in highschool and I'm already 15 ofcourse I can also think for myself and I know what's right and wrong. ) Until now, I still think I didn't deserve that because that argument only started from a simple thing that my mom took seriously. sometimes, when I think Im just telling them the truth or the things I observed about our family or the things I want them to know, they just don't understand me. Sometimes I feel alone because I don't even have support from my parents. This has been my problem for a long time.. i have a lot of things I want to tell them but it just seems that they woudn't understand so I just keep it to myself ..
when there will be times that you want to scream out loud, just be patient, just like what i do, just wait for the right age and maybe while waiting youll find the answer you're looking for.. if they'll change their their attitude towards you.. Goodluck

Answer 3

Parents are not difficult to understand. Simply listen and tell honestly, politely, heartly. I am aged 51 years and my children never understand me. We have a lot of dispute. My daughter never cooks for me.
All wants no interference. Avoid irritating matters. Talk on common matters.

Answer 4

the word " MOODS " , " communication gap " play key role in this query.At times, there may be a situation in which despite of having any mistake we will be prosecuted but here if think for a while the person who is questioning us then the problem will automatically gets solved by itself. " IGO " also leads to the disputes between the parents and their children and reality is they are the creators and guardians of our fruitful life until we can able to lead life independently.

Answer 5

Just natural stuff. Arguments are good, just make sure you learn from them. Parents got their vision of the world that most probably is different than yours. But when you become a parent then things revert to what your parents did.
Solution: Make sure you get their point of view, paraphrase them, and make sure they have your point of view. Compromise. and of course lots of love is the main thing within parents/kids relationship. So make sure you show them that you loved them.
Be honest with your folks, and be honest with you. Good luck. Don't forget things get better with age.

Answer 6

Generation Gap, but we have to go to there level to make them understand. For example : How will teach KG Student, the way of treatment is different. Find a way to make your parents understand with there mindset.

Answer 7

my dear ty and understand parents as parents r the only one who loves u and cares for u unconditionally so what ever they say think about it and still if u feel they r wrong talk to them and try and explain ur point of view may be if ur right they will understand u.

and as it is all have different opinion for the same thing but parents r experienced so we should always listen to them

and solution is one talk to them ,may be hey will understnd u.

Answer 8

it's a normal part of life that you have to deal with. think of it as a way of strengthening your bond, a learning process. so the next time around you would know what and how to avoid things that will cause a dispute.

Answer 9

generation gap.
. if you are a teenager, stop and please listen to your parents, coz, they have more experience and they will always wish you well.


I am assuming you are a grown up and have elderly parents. Just, be calm, listen to what they have to say. sometimes, they just have to get it off their chest. Patiently listening to them will give them a sense of satisfaction. Just talking about the "good old days" will put a smile and a lot of talk into their mouths, leaving you free.

Answer 10

Our parents sometimes are right and sometimes are wrong, but they just want the best for us. Everybody argues with their parents, is normal.