2007-02-06 23:58:45 · 10 answers · asked by uniquechild 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when we are rejected sometimes we feel it must have been something about us, and it eats away at out self worth, but really it isn't about us, it's just that they have chosen a different path in life, and they are suppose to learn a different lesson from life. rejection is sometimes good, as it may mean we aren't suppose to be with that person and our destiny doesn't lie with them. it can save us alot of heartache if we handled it right, and didn't let it hurt our self esteem.
2007-02-07 00:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone is rejected atleast once in their lifetime. I didn't let it get to me much. Within an hour i was puttin the moves on some other fine lookin chick.
Move on and don't let it get you down, there are plenty of people to go around, you'll find one you like soon enough.
2007-02-07 00:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes im glad i have been rejected b/c i wouldnt be with the guy im in love with now...sometimes it doesnt always have to be a negative thing. some people think they get rejected b/c their ugly or other reasons.....but dont take it so personal take the hit like an adult and keep it movin!
2007-02-07 00:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been rejected many times... it's like being thrown from a horse... you've got to just get back on as soon as you can.
2007-02-07 00:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By not rejecting myself also!
2007-02-07 00:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by stiletto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been rejected once, my ego was smashed but a few days later someone else walked my way
2007-02-07 00:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cried n cried n cried..thot i ws such a loser..felt like commiting suicide..i jss dint..used 2behave like a sadistik b*tch..
nyway..thingz juss got allryt then..i 4gotten abt that freak now..i hav the bf of my life~!! i luvveee him..n datz enuf for me 2keep me happy for the rest of my life..:):):)
if u hav been rejected..dont think of doin any of these shytt..talk 2some1..maybe ur good frnd perhaps..itz gonna be sad 4sumtime..and then ur life will be perfect..but it wll be ..i assuuree you..cheer up baby!!
2007-02-07 00:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by » Ðëe®'§ Êÿ€ « 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember I said, "One day you'll come to your senses, and you'll be back" and said it as a prophesy. It got him mad and worked wonders for my ego.... and years later he *did* try to come back.
Another time I said to myself one day he'll (different guy) see me years later and kick himself.... and guess what? It really happened.
Just tell him... or yourself... the opposite of what you're experiencing now... and turn it into a prediction... a "Just watch! THIS will happen..." and let it go...
It all works out.
2007-02-07 00:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i said to myself "he dint deserve my love" coz he really dint
2007-02-07 00:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by crazyash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um...no...and rejected by whom?
2007-02-07 00:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by corkscrewpirate 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋