2007-02-06 23:58:12 · 17 answers · asked by iluvmy6girls 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I too am cheating on my husband. Only I've never been physical with this other person I have emotionally fallen in love with him. We talk on the phone for hours and I have never laughed so hard in my life as when i'm with this other guy.
I've come to the point where now I even talk to this guy while my husband is home. At first I denied cheating on him since I never had sex with this other person. But now I realize I'm in love with this ohter person and our emotional connection is stronger than my marriage.
I think of my husband as a roomate, sad I know. I would like to get a divorce but at the same time i'm pretty set in my ways at home. I'm use to not needing to work, and having money. I know i'm being selfish. I want the money from my husband and the love from this other guy.
And if you tell me to choose I would choose my husband and cry at night because I know this other guy is the love of my life. But right now we can't be together. He lives in Canada and I live in America. He is also 3 years younger than I. But I do love this other man like i've never loved another person in my life.
ANd for this, is the reason I do not regret putting my husband through hell and back. Pathetic, I know.
2007-02-07 00:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jacki 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
are u missing something from your husaband? if he mistreats u, doesnt give u enuf attention, good sex, care, love and security, i will slightly excuse u...but from what i can sense is that ur missing too many things from him since u said u dont regret it.. if ur husband is a caring one and loving he doesnt deserve this...try to work on ur relationship, get clean, and learn to forgive urself..if u dont love him then leave and get a new life a new man, its better that being a cheater...dont stay with someone u dont respect...or love...ur fooling him and u wouldnt like to be fooled...it degrades...if u are really missing something talk to him...and if u feel its a blocked way..just leave
2007-02-07 08:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Meme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have just answered my previous questions to your previous question. My girl you have big issues and by sleeping with another man are giving that man all your issues to deal with as well. I think you need a SHRINK!! Your deception has made you numb to caring, accountability and being a person with dignity and integrity. I think you deserved those hidings!
2007-02-07 08:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this is pay back time and your marrage is probably over. Maybe you need a professional answer from someone like Dr. Phil or you need to evaluate your true feelings.
2007-02-07 08:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't regret it because you have no respect for your husband, or even a basic sense of decency.
2007-02-07 08:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't love him anymore. Instead of cheating,why don't you just get a divorce?
2007-02-07 08:06:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you dont love your husband anymore and that it is probably time for a divorce...dont you both deserve true happiness
2007-02-07 08:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sled Queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u don't love him anymore, and u are out of god's will and can no longer feel it when u sin. once we get out of god's will and keep sinning that still small voice inside our conscious is silenced, and we no longer hear the thing we call our conscious.
2007-02-07 08:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because according to previous questions you asked, he hits you, seek help and get out of relationship all together.
2007-02-07 08:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by finished 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its because you have grown to love your FRIEND more than your husband most likely because you spend more time with him
2007-02-07 08:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by andrey2790 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋