he says that he didnt cheat on me or even flirt with girls yet all his friends have told people he has and ive more reasons to suggest there telling the truth. ive confronted him on numerous times and he sticks to his story making out that even his best buds are lying!......eventually 2 weeks later when i was reminded of this again i asked him calmly and told him that im not angry id just like to be told the truth and to stop lying and being a coward....wat do you think i should do?..its not the only thing he lied about.....
2007-02-06 23:55:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's a liar. He's lying to you and you know it. Get rid of him!
2007-02-06 23:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Wiseyngsoul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never trust a liar. A guy going on holiday with his mates will flirt with girls just to act macho and as there seems the two of you has not made a lasting committment that itself is not too bad, providing he didn't take things a step further. Would also watch out for these mates, who's mates in fact are they? They seem very immature and not the way you would expect friends to act so are they his as they seem to be acting more like yours? Different if it was thought by one of them you were being made a fool of and told you for the right reasons. You say it is
not the only thing he has lied about. Don't think you needed to ask this question as in your heart you already knew you should get as far away from his as possible...No flowry answers will change him.
2007-02-07 11:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sarah C
Trust is important in any relationship & after two years you should know him better than anyone by now.
I was wondering why you didnt go on holiday together?
You obviously have lost your trust in him (you don't say 'who' kindly reminded you) so nothing he can say or do will restore that right now.
You have to search your heart & either believe in him (forgive & forget) & if you can't do that then ... you know the answer already
2007-02-07 23:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying once is once too many and you need to kick him to the kerb. How do you know that this is the only thing that he has lied about about? You don't because this is the only thing that has been brought to your attention.
Dump him and find someone who will respect you enough to be honest and truthful with you at all times :-)
2007-02-07 08:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things like this don't change in a relationship... you will continue to go through situations like so if u cant put a stop to it now!! even if u still wanted to be with him tell him you are having a problem trusting him and maybe you should no see each other right now. tell him if he wants to be with you, you will not fall for these lies. Plus men like so will never admit to things if they didn't the first time. If he can realize your not stupid for his gamed and you will not put up with it... he might change his lieing problem if he truly wants to be with you and thats what matters! some men need to be guided lol!
2007-02-07 08:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by londonbridge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you can't trust him, then you should tell him. That the relationship can't work, if he keeps lying. Now you have to decide if you can put up with a liar! Stop wasting your time, and find you a real man!
2007-02-07 08:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hiya
I would try talking to him again.This time say you want the whole truth about the holiday as you have reason to believe he cheated on you,if not tell him the relationship is over as you simply cant trust him!!!!!!
2007-02-07 08:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by louise s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually doesn't matter whether he's lying to you or not.
You asked him a question, he answered it, and now you're pestering him for a different answer.
You don't trust him, that's not his problem.
You ought to trust him, or leave, just stop torturing yourself with something you can do nothing about
2007-02-09 05:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jugular 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never get far hon in a relationship with a liar.. you need to tell him to tell you the truth on everything you ask or you're leaving.. and stick to you guns.. if you dont get what you want, leave.. he isnt the one for you if he cant even give you the truth.. i think you've dealt with it in a very mature way so far and you've been fair so now its his turn.. and if he doesnt.. drop him cos you're so much better!!.. and you will feel good for it! good luck
2007-02-07 07:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by peachesandcream 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with him if you know he's a liar? You need to dig deep inside yourself and decide if this is what you want, ask yourself, Do I want to be with someone whom I can't trust and who lies to me? It's only going to get worse, I've been there! Good luck!!
2007-02-07 08:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Tami H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ditch that loser he doesn't deserve you if he can't be honest.
Guys holidays abroad without there gf's, I can 99% guarantee he got up to stuff he shouldn't have.
Trust me I've been on a few.
2007-02-07 07:59:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋