Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex about two weeks after I gave birth. I know that sounds bad but I really want to have anthoner baby? Is there a chance that I could be pregnant again?
2007-02-06 23:39:47 · 11 answers · asked by Lil' Mama 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
wow honey i am very sorry your baby died, but honestly your body just went through the labor and delivery and the whole pregnancy itself, they say it takes up to a year to completely recover from that, you should really talk to your doctor before trying again not only to let youself heal physically but emotionally too, that has to be hard to deal with.
i wish you the best and again i am very sorry for your loss.
2007-02-06 23:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any unprotected sex could lead you to become pregnant and you are more fertile for the first 3 months after giving birth so there is a good chance that you could be. Sorry, just a thought, aren't you supposed to leave it a bit longer than that before you have sex after giving birth anyway?
Well, when you decide you want to try again for another baby id down to you and your bf. It depends how you feel and whether you are emotionally and physically ready for it again. Only you can decide when that is. If you do decide to try straight away though just be aware of other people and their opinions of what they think you should have done. And no doubt people will be telling you its too soon and all the rest. But at the end of the day its your decision, your life, your body, and they can't and shouldn't tell you what to do. Only you can decide when you are ready x
2007-02-06 23:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unprotected sex can get u pregnant if u do it on your fertile days. You got pregnant before so I think there's no reason why you would not get pregnant again. Pregnancy is not just having baby. You should also be ready with the responsibility that goes with it. Are you and your boyfriend ready to give your child the things he needs as he grows up? Are you and your boyfriend psychologically and financially stable to give your new baby a bright future? Please abstain from having sex just for the sake of having a baby if your not ready to take the responsibility of being good parents.
2007-02-07 00:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Seeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to say that I am so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately,only you can answer that question. Everyone grieves in a different way. I am on my third pregnancy now, my first child died in my stomach at 6 months. I waited 6 months and then I got pregnant with my daughter who just turned 6. I am now 27 weeks pregnant. You need to see how you feel, some women want to get pregnant right away, others need the time to recollect. Whatever your choice, it has to be your own. Good Luck!
2007-02-07 00:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by earthstarlatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your baby. It's a good idea to let your body heal before becoming pregnant again. Even more important is that you are able to heal emotionally. Right now your hormones are probably on a roller-coaster. Your body produced all those hormones to prepare you to mother a child, so it is only natural that you would yearn for a child to care for. Even though it is difficult, I would really urge you to wait and let yourself go through the grief process and deal with the loss that you have just suffered. Talk to your doctor about the physical aspects, and also see if he/she might be able to put you in touch with a support group for parents who have gone through the same thing.
2007-02-06 23:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by ms_quiltsalot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks is a bit too early. Doctors recommend about 6 weeks to allow your body a chance to heal and prevent infection.
If you are a teenager, I would wait a bit longer...like until you are an adult. Bringing a third person into your relationship will be the first thing to tear and your boyfriend apart. You time to be a kid, and time to grow as a couple.
2007-02-06 23:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by mamasquirrel 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry your baby died. You should ask your doctor to be sure, but I think you are supposed to wait a while after giving birth to have sex.
2007-02-06 23:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should give your body time to heal before trying to get pregnant again !! I am so sorry for your loss and i know how you feel my 1st born daughter died and i had to heal both mentally&physically before i would even think about getting pregnant again!! It took me 4 years before i had another child because i was so tramatized over losing the 1st one !! GOOD LUCK and please give your body &mind time to heal it will make your next pregnancy a lot safer and healther!!
2007-02-06 23:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by linda bug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only way you will know is take a test. That is a personal decision that you have to make . If you feel you are ready then go aheasd. Only you know.
2007-02-07 00:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by doodersmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that you lost your child but I think you should wait sometime.
2007-02-07 01:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by laney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋