Men what would you choose, and women what would you choose...what do you desire the most?
2007-02-06 23:32:09 · 22 answers · asked by uniquechild 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Respect is the most important. I would not be with someone who does not respect me.
2007-02-06 23:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by ne11 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would choose respect. I dont think you can love someone if you dont respect them. The man i am with says he loves me, when he is in a good mood anyway, but i know that he dont have an ounce of respect for me. It shows!!!!!!! That respect is more important!
2007-02-06 23:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Takita F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Respect. Love isn't anything without respect. I desire to be cherished more than anything. There's nothing nicer than seeing an elderly couple, still holding hands - and he treats her like a Goddess. That's what I'm waiting for.
2007-02-06 23:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had an affair several years ago, and my husband caught me. I ended up telling my employer because I was such an emotional wreck. I ended up loosing my respect at my work place because of this as well. That was extremely hard, but my marriage did survive because of LOVE. I would have to choose Love. Jobs come and go...but True love doesn't.
2007-02-07 00:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by K.W. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would choose LOVE, but I would miss respect.
Having respect with no love, would always be cold.
Having love with no respect, would be meaningless
tough decision
2007-02-06 23:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by John Th 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
False dilemma. There is no real love without respect. Trust me on this. Disrespect leads to resentment, and resentment leads to defensiveness and mistrust. A relationship has to feel safe for love to really grow and mature.
2007-02-07 00:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i would have said love, but after the last couple relationships i have had i might say respect. i wasn't respected in either of them, and without respect it's hard to believe that you are loved. so i don't know. this one's a stumper.
2007-02-06 23:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by pikachu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant have love without respect.
2007-02-06 23:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by smooch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect. 100% respect. When you respect someone you are showing them that you do love them. When you love someone and don't respect them, you don't really love them.
2007-02-07 00:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love = respect, consideration for the others feelings, tolerance when
you both can't see eye to eye, and caring. This works both ways, and must be shown by both.
2007-02-06 23:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by V B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋