Well its not a major dilemma but I'm suppose to get married sometime in july and my fiance is in the military. He is going away for three months and coming back. I thought it would be better to get the paperwork started that way when he got back we can just do a simple JOP ceremony (we hate big weddings) and he said he wanted to wait until he came back so we could do everything at once...i guess i didnt see why he wanted to wait. Why some military men so vague sometimes???? especially before they leave.
2007-02-06 23:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to answer # 7 how would I be controlling if I'm trying to be organized and HE brought up marriage not me! im never controlling so dont get it twisted homie!
2007-02-06 23:52:40 · update #1
He's probably scared that something will happen to him.
2007-02-06 23:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by ne11 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men don't understand the organization of women sometimes...ask him why he wants to wait and rush around....also there is some paperwork you cant do until a certain time before anyway.
I once dated a military guy and I have NO IDEA why they act the way they do sometimes.....see we had dated a long time ago in our teens...hooked back up when hewas in Japan via his mom, and when he came back home we saw eachother once then he never called me back.......then a year later I saw him at my job and he had the gall to reach over the counter and give me a hug! LOL...
2007-02-07 07:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hard to plan for the future when you don't know what it holds. Perhaps he'd like to deal with it once he's made it home safely. I totally get that.
2007-02-07 07:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats the big deal or rush
if he makes it back you have the rest of your life to do this stuff
do what he wants, stop controlling him
2007-02-07 07:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he would have a lot on his mind.
Thats the sort of thing my husband would do, some men are like that.
2007-02-07 07:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by older mum 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see see any big deal in it.
2007-02-07 07:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he wants to make sure that he comes back
2007-02-07 07:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is worried that he might not come back.
2007-02-07 07:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋