I said to my girlfriend where she wanted to go for Valentines Day. She said which restaurant, and I sent her a text saying what time she wanted. She sent a text back saying the time, and so I rang the restaurant to book a table. She then tells me today that she rang the restaurant to check that I had booked the table. Don't like that!
Is that normal, or have I overreacted by saying that surely she could have trusted me to book a table.
2007-02-06 23:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your reaction is perfectly normal.. you just tell her that she should have trusted you because you are perfectly capable on doing things without her checking you. and besides, if she can`t trust you on such a simple thing, how will she do that on bigger and more important facts?
you seriously have to have a conversation on this topic and resolve things.. trust is absolutely essential in a relation!
good luck
2007-02-06 23:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it- Valentines day is so nutty-she probally wanted to make sure a table was going to be there, rather then waking in only to wait and be there 2 hours.
I wouldn't freak and ruin your valentines day over it. If she was "un-trusting" let it go- one up her by having someting at the resturant she wouldn't expect llike drop off a bouguet of flowers before you/she arrive and tell her after you give them to her- i freaked when called to check up on the reservations b/c i was afraid they would blow the surprise. If a patern shows of her constantly re-checking there may be a trust issue- but for now take with a grain of saly and pass it off to that she wanted a nice evening dinner guarenteed. As a woman married for 14 years- i willbe the first to say we (woman) all tend to be control freaks and if we "dont do it ourselves" we tend to assume it's not done right/ Sorry
2007-02-11 02:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by KATHEYCARCRASHER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you certainly should consider if you want a lifetime of being double checked. Yes this is something that you need to talk to her about. Have you let her down before or is she someone who doubts everything you do or doubts people in general. You did not overreact and it is something which needs to be talked about and decided how this is going to be handled.
2007-02-07 07:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by thankyou "iana" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are forgetful sometimes? But she should have checked with you instead of ringing the restaurant to find out.
She doesn't seem to trust you.
2007-02-07 07:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by kwjt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's weird. Why didn't she just check with you to make sure the reservations were set? I think she was just making sure the reservations were set, but she could have asked you. I wouldn't worry about it so much, just ask her why she did.
2007-02-07 07:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't like it either, honestly i can't imagine why she would do such a thing and then dumb enough to tell you. your whole life is going to be checked on this is an example, get a new girl....
2007-02-07 07:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you over reacted
2007-02-07 08:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋