Should I have my wife arrested by the fashion police? I mean its been 3 weeks since she had the twins and?

Question

to be honest she aint losing the weight and she generally looks really frumpy. I know you may find this hard to believe but she actually asked me to help her make the dinner last night!!! The nerve....

Tally ho!!

Answer 1

I am sending your wife my best bonnet and flip-flops, as you know I have great taste and maybe she will appeal to you more when wearing my stuff. Susanna & Triny always consult with me first and even Vic Beckham likes to emulate my sense of style

only too happy to help hug x

Answer 2

Give your wife a break twins are very hard work and all new mums don't have the energy to do cooking let alone lose weight so give her a break and let her have a evening nap because I think she can do with it and get up off your a&"e and do some cooking and cleaning yourself and don't exspect her to lose weight for a few month's untill the babies are sleeping through the night. Mabe you should stay at home with the babies alone for 1 day and do all the night feed's then you do all the thing you wife does when your at work, Then if you cope well and have no problems then you can have the right to put down your wife on here.

Answer 3

Three weeks is not a long time after giving birth to still have weight on. Your wife had twins, and she has a lot of work with two babies. I hope that you did help her make dinner, at least--you are helping with the babies too? Watch your wife, as many go into post-partum depression - if she is very busy with little sleep and no help, well just keep an eye on her.

Tallo ho, back at ya

Answer 4

lemme just share with you some thoughts on post partum fatigue...

After you've had your baby, you are likely to be absolutely exhausted for a time. It is important to take care of yourself during this postpartum period, particularly the first two to four weeks after the baby comes home.
The secret of survival during this time is low expectations: Set realistic goals, like getting the baby fed and changed as often as necessary and trying to eat, sleep, and shower when you need to. Notice that the list does not include preparing meals, cleaning the house, or entertaining guests!


If friends or relatives ask what they can do to help, here are some ideas: Have them hold the baby while you take a shower. Ask them to bring over a meal. Suggest that they do some laundry, wash the dishes, empty the dishwasher, or clean up the kitchen. You may feel as if you're imposing, but people really do want to be helpful at a time like this.


As much as possible, limit guests to people who will really help you, and limit the time for visits from guests whom you might feel a need to entertain.


Tell your partner what you need. For example, maybe he could bring you the baby at night to nurse in bed, order and pick up some takeout food, or do a load of laundry.


If you get really exhausted, ask your partner to get up and feed the baby during the night, either with a bottle of formula or breast milk that you pumped an hour after you nursed during the day. One whole night's sleep can make a huge difference.


If financially feasible, consider hiring a baby nurse or a postpartum doula.

Answer 5

I can't tell if you're serious?
So she asked you to make dinner, to help her with it...what's the big deal? She gives you twins and you're being critical? Holy carp, re-think your position, man!
Weight loss can take time...coming back to normal after delivering children will take time...there are hormone changes, and too, there could be a depression. It's not uncommon.
I think you really ought to get into the thick of things and help her out, which you should do anyway. She helps you doesn't she?

Answer 6

Oh dear is she still wearing leggings and baggy tops? U see once u fall into the legging trap its hard to drag yourself back out ... but i agree its been 3 weeks she has had plenty of time to recover and get back into her skinny jeans , i really feel for u , she sounds very selfish indeed and asking u to help make dinner its just not on .. u need to sit her down and explain to her that she really needs to pull her finger out or shes going to lose u !! Good men like u are hard to find !!
Its valentines soon tell her shes not getting anything from u and go out on the lash with your mates , show her whos boss .. make a stand , cant understand these women myself sometimes ....

Answer 7

I know you are not serious - because if I were your wife I would unplug the computer your are using to send this question and quite literally "bin it" - and as for dinner I would suggest you go and get a special take out curry from India itself - so I know you are not serious - just wanting a response - which you seem to be getting without you having to w e i g h t''''''''''

Answer 8

honey...she just had TWINS. try being pregnent for 9 months and pushing 2 babies out of ur vagina and then complain.
the weight is not going to come off after 3 weeks. it took 9 months getting on didnt it?
maybe if you help your wife out more, she would have time not to look so frumpy!

Answer 9

This is shameful and a disgrace to females throughout the world. For goodness sakes I gave birth to quads and was still able to attend the annual hunts ball three days later, I would have been shamed to my boots if I had ever had to ask my husband to make dinner, even three minutes after I'd given birth, never mind three weeks. I suggest you divorce your wife and send her to an asylum for broken women who have no backbone or social decency

Answer 10

Next she'll expect you to get up in the night and attend to the kids.

Women's lib has got a lot o answer for.

Replace her with a low maintenance east European import, if its good enough for Britain's employers its good enough for you.