right i think im pregnant so much and everyone on here does aswell still haven't come on, i told my boyfriend last night and before it was yeah lets try, so here i am thinking im pregnant while he tells me last night hes not ready to be a dad!
and i told him im kepping it so he can get lost coz im not aborting? is this right?, i do think tho that he will come round because now he keeps putting his hand on my belly and rubbing it?
2007-02-06 21:46:52 · 7 answers · asked by Tyler's Mummy! 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Do what's best for you and your baby. If your boyfriend does not wish to be a dad...that's okay. You just be the best mom you can be!
2007-02-07 03:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the absolute right to decide whether to proceed with your pregnancy but it sounds as though your bf may not be up for the job of dad. Yes he probably does feel a glimpse of happiness but that doesn't mean he will be a responsible, supportive father to your baby & it certainly doesn't mean you will both live happily ever after with your little baby. You need to decide whether you are prepared to go ahead on your own without relying on him. If he does come around then great, but if he doesn't then you have nothing to loose. Wishing you all the best with this one it sounds very confusing for you.
2007-02-07 05:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need a man around to raise a baby. lots of Lady's do it on there own. you are stronger then you think..Don't be weak and let a man tell you to get rid of your child.you can do it girl just have faith and believe in your higher power to take Care of you and your baby.i pray that this all works out for the three of you.
I hope this helps my friend. Best of luck
2007-02-07 08:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by chris w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a test to make sure you are pregnant then talk to him as it's your body not his.
2007-02-07 06:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by jkdtw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you taken a pregnancy test, cos there really is no need for all this till you have a positive test.
2007-02-07 06:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by rachel c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get an emergency contraceptive pill as soon as possible.
2007-02-07 05:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Unazaki 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't let him pressure you into aborting,it's your body,your choice ultimately..
2007-02-07 05:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by Two Peas 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋