why are there too many divorce cases in the world?

Answer 1

Too many marriage.. People get married too early and too easily..

Answer 2

there are lots of reasons to that question.... Think of it this way you see a wonderful car looks great on the outside you test drive it and say yep thats for me you fall in love with it . Then you take it home and after a short while it stops working it doesn't drive like it use to it conks out on you lets you down time and time again. all of a sudden you realize you didn't get a prize you got a lemon.

well in marriages its like a crap shoot. you hope at the time your doing the right thing the signs are all there the person is great and them bam they change. and there you are left dumbfounded.

Also some marriage breakdown for lack of communication, respect love, admiration.

Others aren't in it totally, they are there only taking up space but there heart has died or there feelings have changed so now there only going through the motions.

the world has changed alot . We all can relate to that with whats happening in the world. and the one thing that everyone needs whether they admit it or not is LOVE and yet its the hardest thing to find and harder yet to keep.

also people grow . even if your not in a relationship you are different now than you were 10 years ago. so is it not fair for also couples to keep growing the problem lies within them going seperate ways or growing apart or what there ideas and thoughts were back when they got married have changed. and thats not a bad thing. everything change so do the seasons no one stands still and never grows that would be a bad thing. but where it falls apart is when people grow in different directions and the other person isn't on the same page. it happens its natural. some grow stronger and unit others break away.

well anyways thats a few examples for you im sure others will have more but im tired of typing lol

Answer 3

People being intolerant of others; Infidelity; Selfishness; Irresponsible people; Marrying too young; Career oriented people that can't balance between jobs and family; Marrying just because the sex is good and realizing years after they are really not compatible as a couple; Ground rules BEFORE marrying are not laid out and followed through; Not realizing that MARRIAGE is TEAM WORK; Getting into heavy debt during marriage is another reason for so many divorces; etc, etc, etc...

Answer 4

Too many marriages end in divorce because the people involved weren't emotionally mature enough to get married in the first place. They obviously didn't know it, though.

Most likely, they lacked a sense of compromise; the ability to work out problems without a lot of trauma.

Maybe they lacked a sense of sympathy and forgiveness. Heck; we all screw up from time to time, but you pick yourself up, learn from the mistake, maybe forgive the person, and move on. You don't hold someone's mistakes over their head forever.

Maybe there was just too much "me" and not enough "we." You get married because you want to BE with that person, not just to have someone to cook, do the laundry, and have sex with, while you go out and hang with your friends.

If you start to hear things like "my friends" vs "your friends," or "my money" vs "your money," that should be a huge red flag right there.

Answer 5

There are as many reasons for divorce as there are people getting divorced. Two of the main reasons for divorce are:

1. Men marry women hoping they will never change.

2. Women marry men hoping they will change.

Neither one ever happen.

Answer 6

I know and it's very sad ,,
Men in general,, it looks like they're changing clothes.
My ex was married once when I met him,, then after
we divorce, he had 2 relationships, married to 1,,
He's just an example..
I actually wish,, men should only be aloud to have a
second wife, then I think that would lessen the divorce
rate.. they might try to work out on the family problems
instead of running from it..
I'm still on my own with my son.for nearly 9yrs now.

It's just a very sad story of life,, coz once it's broken
then it became a part of your life that you wish you
can change it It belongs to the past and yet still your past.

WHAT A PAST. . ..

Answer 7

Because unfortunately our world is starved of basic care, affection, security, self identity, loyalty etc all lovely traits/character which have either been taken for granted or simply just not valued anymore. We humans think we need these to be complete as individuals, so off we go and marry before our time to cover/mask our deficits/insecurities and misdirect our love upon people who do not recognise/acknowledge or simply don’t agree with our qualities…hence divorce :(

Answer 8

There are many reasons:
People marry for the wrong reasons, they give up too quickly when the going gets tough, its too easy to get divorced.

Answer 9

It seems like people have unrealistic expectations of what marriage is going to be. They think it will be exciting and romantic all of the time, instead of just being happy and satisfied with content. Contentment and peace are vastly underrated in life, in my opinion. Some people go from relationship to relationship chasing the extreme high you get from a new relationship. Once it wears off they think they're unhappy and they start fighting, then they think they're "out of love", and then they give up.

Answer 10

I would say because we are too quick to fall in love and whenever there is an argument between your brain and your heart-- your heart always wins.

It would be great to simply find one person, fall in love and continue life, but few are that lucky.

A wise man once told me you gotta go through the bitter to appreciate the sweet, all i wanna know is how much bitter is enough?

I'm not entirely sinless, I have broken hearts before, but man wouldn't it be great if that aspect of life was easier?

Either way, once you find that person you'll know the worth was worthwhile...............lets just hope its soon.