Iv had so many failed relationships, i jus want to know whether its me doing something wrong, or jus misunderstaing the whole concept of the male and his way of thinking. what do men actually expect on the first date? Im totally confused.
Please help.
2007-02-06 20:07:36 · 3 answers · asked by t p 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
men is more on goals...
women enjoy life...
sometimes its vice versa..
so, you need to focus on your date...
focus on getting their attention and feeling comfortable with you...
focus on how they look, improvement and the likes... compliment
focus on understanding what they are saying...
focus on understanding what they mean even if they don't say it...
focus on them... not you...
Have fun in doing it...;-)
2007-02-06 22:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by DEADPOOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this answers your question very well but even as a guy I think if you are going to have a good relationship together both the male and female must listen to one another while constantly doing their best to be forthright with one another. If you find you are in a bad relationship you have to decide when to move on before things get too bad in the end. If many guys aren't really interested in a relationship of much length with you but they do hook up with you then it seems that they are likely to be telling you anything just to get sex from you. If you think your problems stem from your own poor choices to begin with I would watch that in yourself and or go see a professional ear of some sorts on all this to try to get some outside opinions on the issues you have seemed to have had in the past with the boys you have run into. Also I have a book recommendation if you want more pro level advice than what you get off here but don't wanna go see someone go check out the The Dr. Drew and Adam Book.
2007-02-06 20:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men like women who are interesting and mysterious
2007-02-06 21:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by kwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋