Both have very solid arguments, what do you think?
2007-02-06 20:03:06 · 20 answers · asked by Angry Johnny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell the wife what the mistress thinks and see what she says.
2007-02-06 20:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Your question means the same as whether you should choose your career(wife) or your hobby(mistress). Your mistress in not dependent on you so she doen't give a damn about financial security. Your wife knows what the family really needs, some responsible person to take care of things. Either way, your choice will decide who you should stick with in the long run. If you ruin yourself pursuing your vain dreams, your mistress will surely find someone else as nobody wants to be a loser's wife, leave alone mistress. If your wife doesn't find out your secret affair by the time you are broke, she may not desert you but will make your life as unbearable as you deserve. But you can have financial security and the respect of your wife if you take up a job now. You can pursue your music partime. Switch your options if you make any progress in your hobby. You have to take up a rewarding career since you stand to loose both your wife and mistress if you don't succeed. Don't place yourself between two enraged women for anything. Think twice about the career as it is the pressing need. Mistresses and hobbies can wait if they can,you don't loose much even if they don't.
2007-02-07 04:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by havah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously the mistress isn't affected by what you do financially and your wife is. your responsibilities are at home and work comes first, pursue your music career on the weekends. I'm sure your wife will agree with this. But two minds are better than one, why don't you tell your wife what you and your mistress think and go from there, see if your wife will agree.
2007-02-07 05:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by KricketP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
should be ur choice do what u want to do dont let others make a choice for you for a change think from ur head not from heart and the penis(as ritly said by techx69) if u r well off bth will be there if u go to dumps ur wife might stick with u bt mistress a wee bit less chances of being there ............. grow up man
2007-02-07 04:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by morpheusthe dream 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything... get the 2 women in your life to support you or become a gigalo.... seems you have made a good start on that type of career.... get your wife to do your accounts... i am sure she would be so happy to see where the money comes from... and show your mistress the photo's... maybe she would help you earn extra cash by participating in some of your work....
to55er!
2007-02-07 06:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by superloopy70 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree with jmk1155 tell you wife what your mistress says and see what she thinks.
Oh by the way have you ever heard this toast?
Here is to wives and sweethearts may the two never meet! You keep up going the way you are going and they are going to meet and then your a**s is grass and they are the lawn mowers.
2007-02-07 04:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well the wife will give you the best advice. YOu had better leave the mistress alone, before you are on here crying the blues..
2007-02-07 04:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you have a lot of difficulty making any sort of decision, you have two women you obviously cant decide on and two career choices. Im not being harsh, just completely honest.
Think for yourself, what do you really want to see in 20yrs? you may well be alone and broke if you dont start making decisions for yourself right now.
2007-02-07 04:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by Spastikus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow what your wife says.
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2007-02-07 04:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Deepali 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly you need to seek a seat at a counselors office and decide what to have a mistress or a wife maybe then you won't have to ponder over such a question as to what you should do..LynnA
2007-02-07 04:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn A 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋