It's in the process and no way do I "feel" married to her anymore. I am not the instigator of the divorce, but four months have gone by and my wife did not want counseling from the start.
2007-02-06 19:27:34 · 8 answers · asked by Delta Charlie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it's not wrong. Once you're separated, your promise to each other is null and void; the divorce is just a legal formality. In this age of lawyers, finalizing a divorce may take months or years; it is stupid to put your life on hold. Date if you feel ready.
2007-02-06 19:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This decision would be all up to you. There is no reason that we can give you unless you are looking for a spiritual reason. Now technically you are still married, but as long as you let this person know that you have no intentions on getting back with your wife and that you are in the process of a divorce. If she is ok with it, then you can do what you want. Some women feel better when the man is divorce and some hold their value to not deal with a married man whether he is separated or living with the wife. You would have to do what you want with the situation in your own way and what is best for your needs.
2016-05-24 02:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, wait til the divorce is final, then give it some time after that to make sure you know why the marriage failed, before you move on.
2007-02-06 22:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until the divorce is final, you know that you should be doing that and have to abide by that. So be patient, and you will be later having time for yourself for 4 months maybe and change yourlife style afterwords, be a good person.
2007-02-06 19:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by Summer O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A big NO from me. She's called it quits and apparently is not trying to get back with you. You deserve to pursue happiness and so, please go and have your fun.
HOWEVER......please spare a thought for the person you're dating. If you still have feelings for your wife, you should hold on till it's finalised cause you know, women.. we can be very fickle-minded sometimes ;-)
2007-02-06 19:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it's wrong, but I'd also say that it's too soon. You're going to be in recovery for quite awhile.
2007-02-06 19:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are separated and not by choice why should you wait. Good luck.
2007-02-06 19:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-06 19:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋