2007-02-06 19:09:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your only reason for marrying the man was for the money, then yes, that is wrong. A marriage should be based off love, commitment, caring, trust, and much more. Money matters, but not NEARLY enough to base the entire relationship off of it.
Furthermore, the reason you left him also depends. Did you leave him because he ran out of money in a sense that he stopped working, and could no longer support the family? Was he trying to get a new job, and support the family, or choosing not to work?
In summary, if you are marrying men simply for their money, and leaving them when it runs out, they yes, that is wrong.
All of this is opinionated, of course.
2007-02-06 19:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ezekiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Muffy, you will always act in your own best interests. We all do. The trick is to really understand ourselves and what we want.If you focus on money, you may get money but there may be other things that come with the money that make a person undesireable. Honor yourself, be true to yourself, learn to accept yourself without judgment. If you truly love yourself and can accept yourself, then you will honor yourself by the choices you make. You chose one husband for some reason(s). Now you say you are leaving him "because he ran out of money." If that's the only reason, and money is also the only reason for finding a man in the first place, look what just happened. You chose a trait, having money, on which to base a marriage. When the money ran out the marriage ran out. Now you want to repeat the experience. Maybe there's a lesson here?
2007-02-07 03:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is essential for survival, and money is strong enough to break a marriage, but is running away from financial hardship the best solution? I hate to say it, but I think you're acting immaturely. It seems like you want a daddy to take care of you rather than being a woman and facing life's challenges. If your next husband turns out to have other problems will you divorce him too?
2007-02-07 03:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by CharlieC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't wrong to do this. You live a lifestyle that requires money and thus you must have it. Don't forget to max out the credit cards before you leave your current husband. Grab up all the valuable stuff so you can sell it for cash.
Take everything you can get that's worth anything. I've done this with 4 ex's. i personally like hoarding cash, i smile everytime i get my many monthly bank statements.
2007-02-09 08:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? are you serious? i think it is a bad thing to do! i thought marriage are supposed to happen because both of you trust and love each other no matter what? isn't thatt right? unless if your husband is a lazy *** that you have the rights but if he is struggling or anything, then you seriously cannot do that to him because he is innocent and if you leave him, he'll be so damn depressed and may do something like planning a plot to get revenge. so think about it or you'll regret it. And how can you be so sure that the future guy will be better and richer than your husband, maybe he will be worst than him.
2007-02-07 03:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did that happen? If it was by negative means like, gambling and overspending, then you have every right to walk away and find a better life for yourself. But if it was not his fault like say, he made a bad investment or he was being cheated of his money, you should stand by him and give him all the support he needs. You swore and oath when you married him; for better or worse, remember?
However, it is not my place to criticise you for you probably have a good reason why you need to be with someone who has money.
2007-02-07 03:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its wrong but since that is how you feel leave but instead of finding some other guy with money how about you go make your own.
2007-02-07 06:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why don't you marry a money making machine. You do not deserve a loving husband and I hope you never find one.
2007-02-07 05:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by Shanu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are crazy who would even consider being with you, men will smell you a mile away good luck
2007-02-07 03:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by JOHNNY C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a shallow, brainless, idiot. Shallow for not caring about true love. An idiot for not being able to make money on your own.
2007-02-07 03:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ralphie 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋