2007-02-06 19:09:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then do you love her?I dont think that age is a problem to relationship. My dad n mum also differ 15 years. They are so loving.
2007-02-06 19:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by xiaojia 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
since the girl i only 14 so she is immature. b polite with her and explain her that it is her infatuation.u explain her by telling her that when u were of her age u also had a crush on someone ,but later u realised it is just a crush/infatuation.explain her that she is in adolescence and such feelings are natural at this age but these feelings should not b taken seriously as it will hamper her career. if still she continues talk to her parents.otherwise she can create some problems for u.she can evn blame u for something u have'nt done.ok all the best.
2007-02-07 03:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's just an obsession, I think. I wouldn't be too worried about it. Unless she starts coming on to you, then I'd tell her that the age thing is a huge issue. How many girls do you remember at that age who were attracted to an older guy? I remember quite a few. Just try not to get involed, you could end up being framed if it got out of hand. Use your head.
2007-02-07 03:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by jamesemt911 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
hi!
talk to the girl personally(not alone).tell her frankly that u dont her in a calm n polite manner.explain her abt d things at that age.n also the age difference u both have.
tel her that its just attraction which may be due to watching today's telesoaps(serials),movies,etc or may be her friends encouraged wen she discussed abt the initial feelings.
sum1 shld teach her the right things,why not u be the first."if then also she dont learn n listen better tel 2 her parents.they wil teach her in a right manner.
ALL THE BEST
ALL THE BEST
2007-02-07 03:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both are too young to know about or talk about love. The present age is of studies kindly concentrate on that rather. This is only affection. How do you know that she is loving. If u ignore her she also tries to do the same. In this age how u mould the other also try to mould in that way. If u see only u know that she is following you if u ignore then she does not follow you.
2007-02-07 05:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am 32 and a girl 15 yrs of age has fallen for me and is obsessed with me, my smile and my personality. What I did was to completely ignore her any such moves and yet be very normal with her. Being into teaching profession, I faced this situation many a times and I handled them very carefully. One girl even advanced a lot further that she offered me to bed with her.
There is something called calf-love or puppy-love. Its termed as infatuation which is common with teenagers and needs to handled very tenderly. Be careful while dealing with it. Ignore her moves, call her Beta... Beti... etc while addressing her. Sometimes refer her to be your sister... and she will realize that you are not interested in her romantically.
She will come out of her dream-world.
2007-02-07 03:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by AB2874 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Be careful with a 14-year-old's heart. :) It's just an obsession on her part. Treat her as a friend and do not cross the line. It will fade in the meantime.
2007-02-07 03:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her that she need to look for someone her age because if her parent find out that she like you and you say yes to her you can go to jail because she is only 14 dot be stupid and go out with her she just a kid look for some one you're age.and if she still what to go out with you just talk to her parents and tell them what is going on with her daughter.
Good luck?
2007-02-10 13:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for your life, just run as fast as you can,
A 14 years old girl is nothing but jail bait man.
2007-02-07 07:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you even tried to talk to her? My opinion is that you are the adult in this and it's only puppy love for her and it will pass I am sure and just tell her like it is. If she persists then have a chat with this girl's parents.
2007-02-07 03:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by darlin0043 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋