Okay, when you're lonely, you tend to justify your position. You tell yourself that you're better of this way. You don't need anyone. Those outside people would only try to hurt you, you use you in some way. you keep that up long enough, you'll start believing it.
Now that you're believing it, you're afraid of what the outside people will do. Why bother getting that job? You'll just get turned down anyways. Why even consider going to the club? It'll just be me in the corner watching everyone else having fun. I can do that here on TV.
You become dependent on your personal space. You're Comfort zone gets really small. At some point, it doesn't extend much past your room. There's no need to go out side! I don't need them! I'm better off in here where I know I'm safe.
The you lie to yourself to justify the loneliness. Then you're to afraid to do anything about it. Best wishes.
2007-02-06 18:52:07
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answer #1
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answered by Odindmar 5
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The common underlying factor to both fear and loneliness is lacking TRUST.
Trust in yourself, others and the world in general.
If a person is fearful of reaching out and connecting with others, they may be, or become, alone. A person can still feel lonely in a crowded room if they are fearful of opening up and communicating with others.
Developing trust in yourself and others will decrease fear and loneliness.
ACTIVITY:
Create a set of goals for the day and then force yourself to do it. Once you start to follow through, proving to yourself that you have integrity and can trust yourself, then it will become easier and your goals more ambitious. Only when you trust and appreciate yourself will quality relationships be attracted to you and develop.
2007-02-06 19:24:44
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answered by Chloe 3
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they are products of learned behaviorism~these are things that deaf people over look about people who hear~if you become something because of the associations of influences that are the way it goes, then i can't help u, the attention u give them is the only connection if you understand avoidance is quit possible because u can over look emotions as a devise of entrapment's, not only is at a protective measure but it articulates on its own, it can make u obese, it can get u drunk, it can get u, period, any time it wants to attach fear & loneliness, it has equal opportunities to enjoy life with u if you use all wisely, all things are good in moderation
2007-02-06 20:03:08
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answer #3
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answered by bev 5
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Loneliness drives up depression and fantasies. When combined, these emotions drive the lonely to confusion and distortions. Because he/she can no longer separate truth from reality, even a little unexpected and nasty/traumatic event occuring can drive him/her to panic and subsequently to live in perpectual fear.... and he/she becomes paranoid because he/she can't erase fear out of his/her mind. The more paranoid a person is, the more insane he/she becomes.
2007-02-06 18:58:44
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answered by United_Peace 5
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I also appreciate being on my own. I have a chum who likes to do some thing per week and thinks some thing is inaccurate with me because i do not care to. i'm very mature for my age, so i'm on the point the position i extremely relish being domicile on my own even as she continues to be into the celebration/draw close out scene. i wager some human beings only ought to consistently be round others. i'm unlike that. truly, even as i develop into in college my roommate and that i bumped heads because she loved having human beings interior the room each and each and every of the time, yet I considered the room as my personal dwelling area. i did not recommendations having human beings over once in a lengthy time period, yet no longer each and each and every of the time. although, i don't love feeling lonely, which I do experience each and every from time to time. although even as i trust that way that is continually on the difficulty of my being unmarried. that is the more severe.
2016-11-25 22:03:02
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answered by Anonymous
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Sometimes you can isolate yourself from other people because you are afraid of them, or are afraid of being emotionally hurt , or you may have phobias that keep you seperated from the rest of the world. Then you would become very lonely without human contact, and the fears would only be exacerbated.
2007-02-06 18:52:09
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answered by Anonymous
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The only answer I have with that connection is - the fear of dying alone.
2007-02-06 19:03:04
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answered by Spitfire 1
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they could very well go together but doesn't have to.For years i was lonely and no fear and then there were years I was fearful and not lonely and then there were years i was fearful and lonely so I would say yes it could be associated with each other..
2007-02-06 18:48:08
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answered by Anonymous
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fear - shiver and loneliness - alone .
2007-02-06 18:45:13
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answered by sharon 3
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the lonliness is the result of problems...and its result is depression.......fear has many causes but I think lonliness doesnt cause fear always
2007-02-06 18:44:56
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answered by Ayman R 1
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