I am an attractive sexually active woman and my husband doesn't totally satisfy me. He loves to watch porn and look at dirty magazines, we have even made our own movies. I am very tolerant of his behavior because i know men like to look at naked women other than there signifigant other, but it makes me feel inadequite because he doesn't have sex with me very often or even when i need it, so i am forced to satisfy myself. He also talks about the women he sees and how hot and sexy they are they are. I know he is not cheating on me and I know he is attracted to me, but i don't know what to do. I definately won't cheat on him. But I need to be satisfied and I need to feel wanted. I have tried to talk to him about it but he gets defensive about it. We live a happy married life other than our sex life. Please share your opinion...
2007-02-06 18:29:58 · 2 answers · asked by Selina 93os 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
His sex drive is misplaced. For some reason he is blocked from linking sex with his love for you. He still has a sex drive, he just doesn't direct it towards you. And he still loves you. He really needs to see a therapist about aligning his libido with his love.
In the meanwhile there is a support group for people like us, people who's sex drive is being neglected by our spouse, but we still love them. The group is SWAGE. There's a lot of nice people who understand how horrible this situation is on a person. Nobody else understands... or admits this plight even exists.
2007-02-07 00:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he is'nt because if he was he wouldnt be looking at other womenn hed be pleasing you.
2007-02-06 23:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by melbourne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋