2007-02-06 18:03:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You cannot control anyone else's feelings, only your response to their behavior. So if you want to influence your spouse to be less angry, the fastest (may still take years) is to reward the times he shows self-control. One of biggest rewards you can give him is to say things like, "I was so impressed with the way you controlled your anger." or "I really respect the way you didn't let that bother you." Guys want to impress wormen and be respected by them.
2007-02-06 18:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by I'm not tellin' 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain the folly of getting mad at people after the incident is over.
2007-02-07 03:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well guess you could tell him or her how it makes that person look and how embarrased you are. and that there is always other ways of getting across there question to strangers without making a scene and lowering them selves.
also explain to him to treat others the way he would want to be treated.
2007-02-07 07:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him angry toward you, then he wont angry with other people.
Divert his aim!!!
2007-02-07 02:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why ?
2007-02-07 02:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋