I really like a guy and i know he is gay and i know he likes me but how can i start approaching him and start a relationship please help
2007-02-06 17:46:43 · 14 answers · asked by Brian 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The help YOU need is for someone to care enough about your spiritual health, that you don't willingly go down the SIN path. Read Romans. God abhors this, but loves you all the same. This is a choice for you. What's a few yrs on earth with some fleshly desires fulfilled (wrong may I add), versus eternity in hell without Jesus your savior? Ask yourself this and read Romans and Revelation before you go down destructive lovers lane. NOT worth it!!
2007-02-14 12:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by connie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you would start any relationship. Offer to take him out for a cup of coffee or lunch some day and go from there. Also your question makes it sound like you've never had a "gay" relationship. If this is true, and you identify as a heterosexual. Be careful and make sure what you are doing is based off real feelings and not just a fantasy. After all, you would want to break an innocent persons heart would you?
2007-02-06 17:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ARE U REALLY SURE HE LIKES U, BECAUSE HE HAVEN'T APPROACHED U EITHER UNLESS HE IS SCARED TO. WELL SEE IF U HAVE SOMETHING IN COMMON AND DO THAT TOGETHER BUT MAKE IT ALONE TIME NOT OUT IN THE OPEN LIKE SPORT EVENT OR CLUB. HIT THE MOVIES OR MUSEUM SOMEWHERE TO TALK WHERE ITS NOT 2 NOISY. IF HE DOES NOT ACCEPT THEN HE MAY NOT NE INTERESTED. MAKE SURE U RIDE IN ONE CAR, NO MEETING U THERE CRAP. AFTER THAT ON THE WAY HOME TALK TO HIM AND EXPRESS URSELF BUT DO NOT BE AGGRESSIVE. LET IT FLOW.
2007-02-13 03:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by cute_dimples2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both like each other, the hardest part is over. Now ask him for a drink on a fancy restaurant, and see how things will work. Have luck.
2007-02-14 01:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pato FV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out or start hanging out and get to know each other ..find out his likes dislikes,, What does he look for in a guy.
2007-02-14 10:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Corey J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just ask him out for dinner and a movie. Or if you want to be simple: Coffee.
2007-02-14 10:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love that stage in a relationship. It's so exciting and scary. Best of luck to you bro. Just be natural and give him a wink :-)
2007-02-06 17:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Invite him for a cup of coffee. Ask him to tell you about himself. The right words should come.
Good luck.
2007-02-06 19:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him out for coffee, just like a girl :)
2007-02-14 10:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Matt S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its up to you, the only thing you have to do first is that you try to know your target very well, and all the tastes he/she wants and try to act around your target, plus theirs a saying that when two bodies touch by tapping rubbing or shaing hands their is chemisstry
2007-02-14 11:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋