in the past few days I have gotten 50 calls I am not answering and she is calling my work and I have told her that I will not come between her and her hubby
help!!!!
2007-02-06 17:35:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell her yer datin sunnyblonde...smiles n winks
2007-02-06 18:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by SuNnY BlOnDe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you led her on in any way??? if so then you just need to ignore her. and if that fails maybe you should embarrass her a little. for example if you guys happen to see eachother in a public place (very public...very important) and she tries to be "stalker status" yell out how she has been stalking you and how you've been telling her that you're not interested and how she has a husband to go home to...blah blah blah.
now if you havent. that's a different story. if it goes/has gone on for a while you might need to get other people involved. like maybe the husband or if you think necessary the cops. but if you get the husband involved you have to have proof so make sure you have that handy. cuz he might come at you all crazy.
hopes this helps...good luck!!!
2007-02-06 18:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by KTAC 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right to not get involved. Just keep ignoring her calls and do not tell her hubby anything. Just act like you don't know a thing.
2007-02-06 17:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by bentley b 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give her the option. Either she quits doing that to save your friendship and her dignity or there is nothing to save and so u tell the hubby, for peace's sake
2007-02-06 17:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact her and tell her you pick to make certain her and communicate. in case you call, do not get into it on the phone. communicate in human being. in the previous you note her, keep repeating to your self some thing like, "I deserve an unique courting" so that you will be in a sturdy body of recommendations once you communicate. Then tell her that you pick to cut up because you're searching for an unique courting. you pick a woman who might want to be the in common words lady on your existence and who needs in common words you in her existence. concentration extra on what you're desiring somewhat than accusing her of what she's been doing. Be prepared for the prospect of tears, motives, even perhaps denials. it will be more convenient to be agency yet form in case you keep the most concentration on what you're desiring in a courting somewhat of ways you're indignant and damage through her moves. reckoning on the courting, you've gotten issues that you nevertheless pick to do to thoroughly untangle out of your bond together with her, together with giving issues lower back, etc. Do those instantly so that you'll make a sparkling destroy and commence specializing in what you pick now on your existence. in case you pick a courting rapidly, commence filling up your calendar with social events. this would also be a sturdy time to re-evaluate your targets in existence and positioned your means in the route of accomplishing those targets. attempt no longer to spend any extra time than necessary questioning about your lady friend or what went incorrect together with your courting. I once broke up with a guy when I discovered out that he were seeing somebody else on the side. i develop into devastated and spent a lengthy time period mourning the lack of him. I snapped out of it even as i develop into given right here education--"that isn't any longer the fellow we bypass over, that is who we idea that human being develop into, that we bypass over." sturdy luck to you! existence's short and also you deserve extra perfect.
2016-11-25 21:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by zagel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. You're doing the right thing. She should hopefully stop calling after a little while. If not, maybe you can get her # blocked.
2007-02-06 17:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to get the police invoved if this continue to be a problem
if not then tell the husband, what going on.it does sound like
a dangeous situation that will continue until you do something
about it.
2007-02-06 17:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go and hire a jigalo instead of wasting money ringing you. That way there is no strings attached.
2007-02-06 17:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. hats off to u man,
2007-02-06 19:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you/ You will only get hurt and why ruin your morals for any one?
2007-02-06 17:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel, don't answer the phone u doing right, and she will understand by herself that u not interest anymore...
2007-02-06 17:40:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋