2007-02-06 17:17:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In all probabilities YES - majority of the kids, though not ALL.
Many psychological and sociological researches have proved that broken homes (which include quarrelsome parents) where the children grow mostly acquire adjustment and personality problems. This ruins their life as well as those associated with them including their wives.
NOTE: More and more workshops are therefore becoming popular and they are organised by professional counsellors to create awareness and teach ' parenting skills' to young parents in cities like Mumbai, Pune, Banglaore and Chennai.
2007-02-06 18:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Marks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children exposed to a life as you describe it, learn that it must be OK and normal. In reality it is NOT OK. Fighting and yelling are communication problems and a loss of control. When a couple have the normal problems of married life, they need to learn that you handle ONE problem at a time---and no amount of fighting is going to help. Since we are all responsible for our own actions, there is no need to copy what you saw as a child--you have got to see that it is not a good idea. Hopefully you will give some thought to what you say--BEFORE you say it. Good luck.
2007-02-07 01:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe that happens in every situation. some kids learn from mistakes their parents made, i know i did. i know sometimes things are extremely bad and this isn't always the case but a good relationship between each parent and child will sometimes help in that type of situation. allowing the child the ability to talk about the way he/she feels about the fighting instead of holding it all inside. i believe that is where history repeats itself. although the best thing to do is to never fight in front of your children if possible and never show the tension between each which i know is easier said then done. in extreme cases you really need to seek help.
2007-02-07 01:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by brandi b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessairly. My father beat on me but I've never laid a hand on my daughter. My mother was verbally abusive, and overly critical but again. I chose not to go down that road either. But then my sister went on to raise her kids much the same way my parents raised us. Go figure...each child is an individual and one can not predict what type of an adult they will turn out to be.
2007-02-07 01:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,
and I don't mean that they will be quarrelsome, but there can me an opposite extreme...
Meaning that they did learn something...and it is not healthy to be totally extreme in either learned behavior...they may be quarrelsome...they may be passive...but there is no real balance in that...right
We tend to normalize our situations...and that doesn't make them functional at all...
2007-02-07 01:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from what i know,parents are the role model for the kids,the kids will do the same thing what the parents are doing,so if the kid is with the qurrelsome parents definitely it will quarrel with its wife or husband.
2007-02-07 02:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by Divya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear
Yes home is the first school for any kid
if parents quarrel ,he thinks that it is the way of life,then he may do the same to his wife also
2007-02-07 01:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by sudha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are asking this as a young adult then you are wise and will try not to fall into their pattern.
2007-02-07 01:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on if that is the choice you make it doesn't have to be that way if you make good choices in life! Good Luck!
2007-02-07 01:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time
2007-02-07 01:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋