2007-02-06 16:56:09 · 106 answers · asked by Ian Smith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you think he wont do you like he is doing his wife now, youre an idiot.
2007-02-06 16:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by jaded_poser 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well something you realllyy need to consider is what he has said to you. Your saying that he has promised to never leave you yet he says that whilst he's cheating on his wife whom he promised to be with for the rest of his life? I'm sorry I don't mean to burst your bubbl ebut you really need to be careful with him you don't want to end up getting hurt especially since he's your boss things could get really complicated. If he hasn't seperated from his wife or asked for a divorce yet than that should make you think? Because if he was truly commited to you and honest about it he would have told his current wife by now he would have ended it instead of having a secret affair. Speak to him about how he hoenstly feels about you? What he does with his wife and if he is serious about this? to be honest I think you should leave the situation completely a lott easier said not being involved though and also a lot easier said than done especially when emotional feelings are involved but this is an extremely complicted situation. Is all of this worth it? Put yourself in his wifes position too? I hope this helps
2016-05-24 02:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk is cheap, and so are his promises. He made the same promise to his wife, right along with love and honor. Yeah, that's worked out great too. You brought this on yourself. Shame on you. You knew he was off limits. He's lying to you. If he wanted to leave her, he would have a long time ago. Those lies about how cold she is, how she's let herself go, never wants to have sex, etc., are lies. He won't leave her. The best you can hope for is that she finds out about this affair, and throws his sorry ass out. Then he'll just be mad at you for ruining his world. If the two of you do end up together, you both deserve each other. Home-wrecker.
2007-02-14 09:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He promised never to LEAVE YOU-----now he's kept to his word. You're the icing on the cake that he's eating at home when he's with his wife.
Foolish woman----he'll never leave his wife. Why should he? He has the best of both worlds---A wife that puts out when ever he wants and a mistress that puts out whenever he wants. He's the king of the relationship----Cheating on both of you. He might be cheating with other women besides you and his wife too.
I would advise you to stop all dealings with this lying fool. If you don't you'll find yourself years down the road in the safe situation you're in right now. Alone---and with no one but an occasional romp in the old hay! Ask yourself---Are you not worth more than that? Don't you want something more? Do you like the drama?
Move on woman---you do have options and choices!
2007-02-13 23:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 33 yrs. and I am also having an affair with a married man. He is well off and gives me everything. I don't expect him to leave his wife, he says he is with me because I give him happiness something he doesn't have with her. He tells me he is going to be with me for as long as I want, but I'm more realistic no matter what his wife was there before me and I will never ask him to leave her.
Why in the world you want him to leave his wife, just remember that if he is cheating on her with you and if he stays with you what makes you think he is not going to cheat on you with some one else. You knew he was married and is obvious he will not leave his wife for his mistress. If you can't put up with this situation anymore leave him alone, and keep on with your life.
2007-02-12 08:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, it's NOT guaranteed that he will not leave you. You need to remember that he is MARRIED. and you should NOT be having an affair with him no matter what he promises nor you should be trying to find ways for him to leave his wife. think about what kind of a person does that make you? and why would you want to be with a man who cheats on his own wife? think about it. You are in an unhealthy "fairy tale" relationship with this boy. If your thinking FUTURE with him, you can forget it! because i can guarantee you that your vulnerable to trouble as well as a broken heart very soon. You need to find a man who is normal, a man who does NOT have any drama in his life, a man who is man enough to be honest with himself, his wife, his marriage & especially his life....right now, you are with what we call a "LITTLE BOY" who does nothing but play games. if he's having an affair, then he is definitely NOT serious about his life at all. As for you my dear....you will learn your lesson later on & i hope you make better decisions with your life next time. I feel sorry for you & i'm sure everybody else on here who's reading this feels the same way.
2007-02-06 17:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women like you are a dime a dozen,and you do not care who you hurt by being the lover of a Married man. What makes you think that if he does leave his wife, he will not do the same thing to you. You and this guy do not have any scruples, and you both do not care who you hurt in the process. I hope his wife does find out about you and her husband so, in the future she will find someone that is better and loyal to her. Remember a leopard never changes it's spots.
2007-02-14 15:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself. He is not going to leave his wife. And if he does he will also cheat on you. You are the intruder in this affair. Does he have any children? Don't you have any morals or at least think better of yourself. Arent you worth more than just being second. Don't you want to be first in a mans life? And remember what goes around comes around.
Be smart.
2007-02-13 17:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie take it from me I was in the same situation almost 3 years. He is never going to leave his wife. There are single men out there that are wonderful go and get one of them. This " relationship" will bring you nothing but pain in the long run. Your better than that just think if by some chance he leaves the wife, what makes you think he won't do the same to you?
2007-02-14 15:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea4192 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a fool. If he leaves his wife, that will prove he is a liar. He actually made vows to her in front of all his and her family and also God. That he would never have an affair, or leave her. If he lies to her he is lying to you. How can you ever trust that he won't do the same to you that he is doing to his wife? Dump him and find a good man.
2007-02-06 17:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He has no intentions of leaving his wife. He made you that promise so that you would stick around and he could continue to use you. That's what happens when you get into an affair with a married man.
2007-02-06 16:59:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋