I'm Gay, what can I do for my Boyfriend on Valentines Day?

Question

I live in Chicago and I want to do something creative and fun for Valentines Day. Get him a unique gift, take him somewhere special etc. Thanks for your help!

Answer 1

Well you could give him two gifts.
1. Some casual/rough sex using the best condoms.
2. Some Perfume. I suggest Jean Paul Gaultier for Men.
Have a nice sexual time.

Answer 2

I guess my first question would be ? HOW LONG? No no , not his pride .. I mean how long you guys been together?

That can make the difference.

If perhaps you've been together for less than five .. flowers, cake (you have to bake it though .. not buy it) .. the bed-in-breakfast routine .. that's always fun.

How about longer than five .. NOW you have learn creativity. Well, you've been together for at least five .. what have you two been doing upto now? Well .. it seems to be working .. HOWEVER .. you wanna now get creative .. hmmmmmmm ..

Well .. theres the old 'spicing up your sex-life' .. try food .. okay .. too messy .. how about toys ? .. no no .. that comes later .. ahhh .. got it .. try switching roles .. you know .. now it's time to give him what YOU want . wink

Okay, now that was fun . now we come up to 10 and more .. wow . now we got our work cut out for us .. phew .. WELL . you've been together this long .. congrats .. geez .. half of us are lucky if we get a date .. and get them to stay til morning .. good god magnum !!!

okay .. roll up your sleeves .. oh wait .. that's the excess flab from all those years of sitting at the bar .. and waiting for your man to show up .. haha .. just kidding .. no seriously ... look .. you just take your man anywhere you want .. i'm sure he'll have just as much fun as he did on the first date .. the fact that he's still with you .. well honey .. he has his valentine .. ain't no dinner .. flowers or movie and sex later gonna change his mind .. honey .. after all these years .. HE'S YOURS ..

So to all you others out there looking for an answer .. go out .. be together and just keep the love going .. that's more than a privilege .. more than anything else you would want .. SERIOUSLY .. FOR BOTH OF YOU..

Happy Valentine's

always

bga

Answer 3

Take him to some place sentimental to the both of you, then go someplace completely new that you both have been wanting to go. You live in Chicago, take advantage of it! I've always been fascinated by the city, so that's surely what I'd do.

To make the event even more special, try getting a nice bag or backpack that he could use, and fill it with a ton of small-ish things that remind you of him or things that you know he'd like. Have him pull things out of the bag over the course of the night.

Just a suggestion.
Have a good one.

Answer 4

On Valentine's Day go out for a romantic meal, say at his & your Favourite restaurant. At dinner give him a Valentine's card with a reservation comfirmation for you and him for the weekend at some nice little B&B in the country. (Ok I don't know the USA too well so the B&B and country bit you'll need to wing it, try a travel agent, they can be a great help, oh yes the web too.) Ok then if you can organise to have A dozen red roses in the roon at the B&B for when you arrive. If you can you can go for walks and picnics (weather permitting of course )- I think it's winter there so you may have to improvise, but I think you get my drift?

In short weekend away _B&B in the country, roses in room and champagne.

Another good one is weekend away, cabin, log fire, alone together.... follow?

Answer 5

It all depends on what kind of guy he is. You could gve him a test ride in a fancy car, for instance (if he likes cars, that is).

Or compile a CD with all of "your songs", and give it to him. In an envelope, you have little notes that correspond with the songs ( note 1 goes with the first song, note 2 goes with the second, etc).

Frame your best pictures together.

Give him a course in sushi making ( or chocolate making).

Go ice skating on a lake.

There is so much stuff to do!

Good luck!!!!!!

PS Please do not pay attention to all these gay basher here. They are not even worth paying attention.

Answer 6

I've said this before and a lot of people like it so I'll say it again. I was in school and didn't have a lot of money so I got a card that was appropriate for my feeling and in it I enclosed coupons to be redeemed at a future date. One was for a massage, one was for a quiet evening cuddling, one was for a movie date, a few were for things that would get my ID tossed, you get the picture. If you choose to use it be creative. I gave 10 coupons that Valentines day, and he still carries one around in his wallet, 20 years later.

I hope this helps.

Answer 7

Getaway vacation. Take him to everywhere you pick to marvel. My fiance took me to Martha's vineyard on my first actual Valentine's Day weekend. i comprehend it develop into too intense priced yet heck, that is love! :)

Answer 8

Adorable! It's nice to see someone who'll remember the day! Ignore these other idiots. What are they doing in the Les, Gay, Bi and Trans section anyhow? loserfaces.

ok. Well, I'm not a guy, nor a gay guy, but I'd try flowers (if hes into that) and then kidnap him( pretend its a family emergency?) from work and go for a nice long walk in the park!

Litter his apt with rose petals etc. if you have the money. or something like that. Serenade him?

Hope I'm not being sterotypical, using what I know from my gay guy friends.

Luv
Lena

Answer 9

why dont you buy him a star and name it after him or even the two of you,I can't think of anything more unique, why not do something you would never normally do, those are the times that we remember forever.

Answer 10

I think you should cook him a nice big romantic dinner with candles, champagne. Make a really romantic scene with flowers or red roses.