Theres this guy whom work at my gym and he just smiles.. and I worked out with him this weekend..and the whole timeI he just kept smiling non -stop.. he just couldn't stop smiling/blushing while he would talked to me,, and I asked him why was he smiling/laughing so much..he told me was beacause of the faces I make they're so cute... so we continued on..and my phone started ringing, and it was by him, and instead of just handing it too me, he actually picked up the phone, and looked at the caller screen to see who was calling before he handed it too me..luckily it was my mom...but then he asks me, does my friend work out at the gym, I said no,so he said the next time he works out he'll call me.. so we could work out together.... so do you think he that into me..even though he hasn't asked me out yet.. and the cell phone thing...what is that all about
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plus when we said bye..I shook his hand, and he was blushing/ smiling..I thought to myself wow..
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he asked about me having a friend come with me to work out because he says that I'm always by myself..and I always look bored...
2007-02-06 16:07:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He sounds like a shy guy who is trying so hard....give him a break!
Carry the conversation for awhile when you're with him...
My take on the cellphone thing: He was revealing his curiosity about your life. (Although BIG red flag if his nosiness persists beyond the initial stages of your friendship)
Same thing with the "friend" question---he was giving you an oportunity to tell him "Well my boyfriend goes here too" or "No, I'm new in town and don't know that many people," etc.
Sounds like he was giving off all kinds of interest vibes to you, but was just a little awkward...
2007-02-06 16:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a friend with You just for Your own peace of mind. Some men do not know how to talk to females because They either have little experience, or else They have been "scared off" in the past. The "phone thing" is a bit of a worry. Could just be force of habit to look at the screen, or a way to hide His embarrassment at being personal with You. Either way, take a friend with You next time You go to the Gym and get their opinion.
2007-02-07 00:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. he's into you.
the cell phone thing could be a number of things.
1, he could just have the auto reflex of checking the caller id. most people do, if my friends phone rings i look at the id to see who's calling her, then announce it to her so she can decide if she wants to answer or not.
2, you can learn a lot by seeing whos calling you. family calling show you're more family oriented, work might indicate you're a work a holic. friends, more carefree
3, and hopefully it isn't this, it might show him a controlling person. my ex would always look at my caller id when someone called so he could lecture me about how i talked to my friends too much, or how i shouldn't talk to that person, or whatever.
2007-02-07 00:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by tanja_berengue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great, you try to laugh and be cheerful and smile, you compliment her that she looks cute, you help a girl out, invite her to work out with you, invite a few friends to join the party.Then, make one little mistake when handing you the phone and you are branded a Psychotic Mass Murderer.
That is the last time I help you out with your exercises.
Eh, give the guy half a chance. He invited others there to be with you. Ask him about his life. People like to respond too. Be around crowds if you are afraid. Get to know the guy before incriminating him to life in prison with no possibility of parole.
2007-02-07 00:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude that sounds like something i would do. i'm kind of shy around new people i think are cute. but i can stop smiling u might want to check him out make sure he isn't loony ya know but good luck never the less. o and if he's not crazy don't let him go cuz he's a quality guy
2007-02-07 00:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that annoys me about this person, he actually peep into the phone screen of yours ?!
That doesn't sit right with me.
Also watch out, he sounds like a mental being giggling all the time.
2007-02-07 00:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he didn't realized that it's socially unacceptable to grab someone's cell and do that. Maybe he was checking for a boyfriend?
If it's meant to be he will develop the stones to ask you out.
2007-02-07 00:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by David W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he's into u guy's don't waste time unless they don't feel a attraction at all so there is something there :) just make sure it ain't a booty call or friends with benefit's cuz that would suck cuz women get a attachment and sometimes men don't so watch ur self
2007-02-07 00:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seem that you are looking or ready to go out with him. so, your question is just to have some confirmation that he is in his way to that. good luck.
2007-02-07 00:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋