HELP!!!! what do i do!?!?!?

Question

I just found out that my mom *she's divorced* is a legal prostetute.
the problem is, is that i go to many of the clubs she has mentioned in the past.....
what do i do?!?!?

Answer 1

First of all, call down, okay? Having a panic attack isn't going to help you. Second of all, since she is a legal prostetute, chances are she uses protection.

Since you say that you just found out, I'm assuming that she doesn't know you know. I'd try to find out why she does it, without embarrasing her.

Be sure not to accuse her, because she might think you're attacking her choice. She could be doing it as a result of low self esteem issues, however she could just be in it for the sex (no offense).

Whatever you do, don't judge her. That's the worse thing you could do.

Answer 2

WOW, I'd flip out. I'd pull back from going to clubs for awhile and instead go to private parties at friends houses. If you still live at home I'd make plans and save $ to move out but not too far, just in case it doesn't work out. I wouldn't talk to her about it right away. I'd need time to compose myself. I'd find something to do like school or work where I could concentrate on that and let the problem work itself out in the back of my mind. I hope this helps.

Answer 3

what is the problem ?!! she being a prostetiute or u going to clubs that she mentioned?!!! I think u should worry about the first one...and help her b 4 she catch std .

Answer 4

if she went in the past I really do not see that it is a problem. No one at the clubs would make the connection unless you told them.

Answer 5

Find some new clubs.

Answer 6

What exactly is a "legal prostetute"?

Do you live in Nevada?

Answer 7

Not tell her you've been to those clubes? Um, I'm not sure what seems to be the problem.

Answer 8

i dont see any problem with that!