I have gone out of my way to be nice to certain people in my husband's family for three years because I didn't want to hurt them, but they can go out of their way to be not nice to me and he pretends its not big deal.
Do you think my actions would be justified if I were to accidentally slip up and cuss a few of them out next time I see them?
2007-02-06 15:46:05 · 12 answers · asked by Jennifer F 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
cuss away tell them how you fell they might get the message...!!!
2007-02-06 15:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by SmoothCharacter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get mad get even, Make a 360 page for each of them, that talks about what digustng perv's they are. and add pictures of fat naked people with their heads photoshopped on the bodies.
Before you can ask us for advice on this matter u have to tell us how much money & other assets they have, how many siblings your hubster has and how much he will inherit if they still like u when they die.
2007-02-07 00:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tim'sSO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuss on, doll, and feel better doing it.
My father in law (bastard) last time we went to his house, we took him a sandwich from his favorite deli. He said, "Hey, I didn't know you liked me that much." I said, "Oh, it didn't cost that much."
Sister in law....over some stupid Christmas event, said, "Oh, I ought to just kill myself right here, right now...(in the kitchen). I said, "Just don't use that big knife, we need it for the turkey.
Not exactly cussing, but, damn, it felt good.
Have fun, maybe they will start to like you a bit more for acknowledging the discomfort.
2007-02-06 23:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them h e double toothpick. Trying to be nice to family members who just give you shyte back are exhausting. I think it is time to let them know how you feel. Then see if he thinks it's no big deal. Sic some zombies on the jerks.
2007-02-06 23:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Justified, yes, but would it be of any benefit? On the other hand, no need to hold it in and stew over their actions. let loose and let the cards fall.
2007-02-07 00:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Papa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jen: You need to make your husband understand it is a big deal to you, and he needs to set his family straight.... My husband would not let his family get away with being rude to me, I know because he had to say some thing to his mom and one of his sisters. They were both pissed beyond belief, but he stood up for me....
2007-02-07 00:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by P-Nut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stoop to their level, they will get what is coming to them one way or another. Besides, they want you to cuss them out so they will have something more to talk about concerning you.
2007-02-06 23:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please read this.
my in-laws are very rude people and i use to take it. my mother and law and father in law was living with us for a while. all my mother-in-law would do was poop on the toilet and throw used toilet paper on the floor. i asked her to clean up after her self and she did for a minute. she then started up again and i lost it on her. i told her she was rude, lazy, inconsiderate and treated everyone like a slave. she got mad and moved out. my father-and law stayed. weird hah. moral of this story is you do not have to take any crap from ANY ONE! if he won't deal with it than you have to and you will be surprised of the respect you gain afterwords! go for it!!!!!!!
2007-02-06 23:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by nakita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would just cause more problems.
2007-02-06 23:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it...let them know you are displeased and that you are not going to take it anymore.
2007-02-06 23:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋