i dont whant to break her heart but were in a situation were its not going to work. we never agree on anything snd have been fighting for the las 3 weeks. im so confused
2007-02-06 15:28:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her, things just arent working out right now and we need to take a break. You are a awesome person inside as well as outside (even if she isnt). It seems like we have been fighting for weeks now. We need a break from each other
2007-02-06 15:32:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is no easy way to ever break up with someone, but you could try just addressing the problems and saying do you think we should end this, or is this something we need to work on? But I can tell you some bad ways to break up so you don't use them. NEVER use the internet as a means to break up. This means never im them, email them, or leave on their Myspace, Facebook or anything like that anything saying its over. THis is so cold and low! Same goes never leave a message on a cellphone or answering machine that your breaking it off, this too is inpersonal and cold! The best way I guess that I am trying to get at is to just simply set down and say to her why you think maybe datting each other is not the right thing for you two to be doing.
2007-02-06 15:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jasen A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's no real way to break up with a person?And i also would need more detail to give you a good suggestion, but if you'll have been together for some time and you do love her your just absolutely positive she's not the one. Do it and be up front with her, if she's not immature she'll respect the subtlety approach.I know i would, and even more you might spare her the heart ache of a rude break up, and keep a friend.Good luck!!
2007-02-06 16:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by pvy_crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are unhappy in the relationship then be honest with her
and tell he truth that things are not working out and you want
out of the relationship, she will be hurt but to stay in this will
hurt even more down the road.
2007-02-06 15:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discover how to be honest with her. Tell her how you feel and offer her the opportunity to work with you on fixing it. Then if it doesnt work, both of you know why. Otherwise, just do it.
2007-02-06 15:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she feels the same way about it. You should just talk to her and let her know that its not getting any better and that doesn't seem like it's going to work out.
2007-02-06 15:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be a man about it and tell her its not workin and u dont wanna be wit her, my x decided he didnt want to be wit me but instead of telling me he jus went and got some other chick and started flaunting her all over town, it wouldnt have hurt so much if he had been a man bout it or had balls
2007-02-06 15:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by CrAzYmAmMa 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok man
i had to last friday
just tell her
do it before valentines day
either way it would hurt
2007-02-06 16:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Landon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, this isn't working, and we shouldn't be together anymore, if she gets mad, she will get over it.
2007-02-06 15:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would he do: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/7/71/O.J._Simpson_%281986%29.jpg
2007-02-06 15:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by ahab 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋