i say that i was born that way my pastor says i have a devil in me?
i don`t feel wrong so does that make it right?
2007-02-06 15:23:42 · 10 answers · asked by katana b 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
It is my personal opinion that people who identify themselves as bi-sexual are actually homosexual but still have one foot in the closet.
I do think homosexuals are born homosexual (at least those that I know) but as Christians, they are not to act on their sexuality--- in the same way that single people are called to be celibate. Don't know if this is possible, but in God's economy I think that person would be blessed for his/her obedience.
I also believe that God's grace is sufficient for you---He says "My power is made perfect in your weakness," meaning (I believe) that He will do for you what you cannot do for yourself---will not give you temptation greater than you can bear and promises never to leave you, and His power is what saves you---not your ability to do the impossible.
Pastors who say things like that scare me. I don't know if they should be pastors. But is it possible you have taken his remark out of context in some way?
2007-02-06 15:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pastor doesn't have the right to pass judgement, but has the right to give his opinion if asked. I think that is far more normal than people would admit. They can deny it all they want.
You do what feels right for you as long as it is not harming anyone else. That is what will make it right.
By the way...it is spelled bi-sexual.
2007-02-06 23:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure it's normal. My opinion is that everyone is at least A LITTLE bisexual. Don't listen to your pastor in these regards. He doesn't truly understand what he's talking about. He's been brainwashed by the mass homophobic religious media. Don't worry about how others perceive you. Follow your heart.
2007-02-06 23:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by The FudgeMaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bi sexual is a choice not a sin. I am not christian so I cant say that I am saying that in a christian term ... but we all have the right to our own life , own choices , own happiness whatever that is.
Christians have that book , the bible , that tell them being bi is wrong so if you are askin them yea it is wrong cause the book says it.
2007-02-06 23:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Wicca_chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no girl it's OK to be bi sexual don't worry and plus it a turn on for guys. hopefully I'll get to meet you. and don't let a person lower you down just have fun we only have one life enjoy it. good luck girl and remember chin up, and remember one more thing only God can judge you. see ya in heaven.
2007-02-06 23:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Da 1 N only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, it's "Bi-sexual"
second, do what YOU feel is right. Your Pastor is a man with his own set of values.
third, the first bi-sexual person I met had this to say "I love being Bi - it lets me perv on everyone!" hehe...never forgotten that!
Love and Light,
Jarrah
2007-02-06 23:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by jarrah_fortytwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not normal, the norm is what most people do--
there have always been deviants--[people who deviate] but they will always be the sub-culture, that sin is why God struck down Sodom and Gomorrah,
2007-02-06 23:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are who they are.To live a lie is evil to everyone involved.Be who you are & be proud.God loves all his children.
2007-02-06 23:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natural. as long as you are not hurting anybody or yourself, its perfectly healthy.
2007-02-06 23:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by threeojl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats who you are then i guess it is normal for you
2007-02-06 23:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by isis504 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋