Being a listener has a lot of drawbacks....I feel like theres no one who I can vent to....none of my friends are online, my sister lost my cellphone and I desperatly feel like slipping back into old habits...
2007-02-06 14:59:04 · 7 answers · asked by C. T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont like the sound of old habits, if it is a habit that is bad for your health then you need to find a support group and if you have computer then you can find one of them for sure. If you just need to vent why not find a bit of personal space (I dont know about your area I go to the beach) and just talk it out to the air, water whatever it works for me may sound crazy to you. I have a friend who talks to her dog and that sounds crazy to me so whatever works but deal with it dont ignore it or it bottles up and wham habits happen.
2007-02-06 15:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I know that pets and stuffed animals can't talk, but talk to them. I am in the same place as you, I can listen, and talk back with a great comeback, but no one seems to listen and comfort you like you do others! So every time there is something wrong, I tell an animal or pet.
2007-02-06 23:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Smurf Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can come here or you can go to a nursing home and spend time with an elderly person who may not be able to talk back, but you can vent to them and figure out your problems as you talk it out and they will not even tell anyone else.
You will be spending time with them and you may begin to enjoy this.
If you want, you can find a nice wise lady who can offer you some wisdom!
2007-02-06 23:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a listener as well, but whenever I have problems, I have friends, both online and offline, who I know I can turn to. And like the one answerer said, you can always turn to God.
2007-02-06 23:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here..... I am one of the ones every one comes to..... I am not used to going to others..... but when I do, there is always my husband..... and even my father and sister and brother..... different issues mean going to different ppl to vent..... but the one guy I can ALWAYS count on is God.... I write him letters, talk to him, write poems, etc., and they are addressed to HIM.... it helps to write things out and then just sit back and wait....... God bless
2007-02-06 23:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so obvioulsy if what your doing isn't working for you then change. old habits might be better than now. it doesn't seem like what your doing now is making you happy (hence you question.) what you need is to call up an old boy friend and talk crazy sh*t to him while your riding him as if you wanted to tear his d*ck off
2007-02-06 23:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try using a house phone? or going over to your friends houses. Or talk to your sister. Siblings are always there for you [even if they act like they're not!]
2007-02-06 23:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋