I m not a lesbian,i used to hv bfs but right now i hv a bf which is a girl.we've been 2gether for already 1 yr 2months.i really love her so much.her parents knws abt us bt they're nt really comfy with it.my parents doesnt knw abt it.and i dun wanna tel them abt it.im afraid.sigh.if they knw.things will get worse!i can jz imagine our life 2gether nexttime,she makes me happy.we have sexual or romantic times 2gether..Im jz happy with it.but y other ppl jz thk dat its digusting?..=( esp God.is dat a sin?
2007-02-06 14:57:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Im sorry about my short forms or whoever that cant read what i'm writing.really sorry.
2007-02-06 16:15:40 · update #1
hey, with work, I figured out what you asked. Live today in a way that she will want to be with you tomorrow. Live that way every day and the days will add up to a forever...it is the only way for this to work. Stop worrying about next year, next decade...worry only about tomorrow and you will do just fine.
2007-02-06 15:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'd recommend going back to school so you can straighten out your spelling, grammar, and punctuation issues. Although I am suspicious that you did it on purpose because you are a regular on Y! Answers and did not want to be recognized.
Also, if you're young enough to be worried about your parents, you should not be worrying about forever. Enjoy the now.
I understand that you have feelings for this girl, but I think that you're not fully willing to admit it. After all, you clearly said that you are not a lesbian, but you are in a relationship where your "bf... is a girl" which makes no sense whatsoever. I think you may be in denial, or afraid of the stereotype that is headed your way.
I wish you the best, but I believe that homosexuality is a sin. However, you have to believe what you want and do what you think is right. I wish you the best and I hope that you find peace in your life!!! =D
Good luck.
2007-02-06 15:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Man shall not lie with man." That's about all the Bible says about homosexuality. People claim the story of the men raping a man is also a story about homosexuality, but I strongly disagree--rape is never justified. This was, however, written in the Old Testament. Many things in the Old Testament are irrelevant and outdated due to changing times and customs. This is not at all saying it is a horrible sin or defining anything whatsoever; in fact, it could mean many things coming from Hebrew. Something else to consider here is that the Bible directly condones any and all pre-marital sex/sex for a purpose other than reproduction. In that sense, heterosexual oral sex or anal sense would be absolutely no different than any type of homosexual sense, and goes along with this Bible passage. The Bible NEVER mentions anything about homosexual feelings of love being wrong.
2007-02-06 15:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by geobrad7 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-25 21:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um not to be mean.. but i cant really understand what you wrote because you wrote it the short way which is kind of confusing when the hole paragraph is like that
But if i read it write..
tell your parents.. because if they love you they will understand..
I dont think its a sin if you love eachother
and i hope you guys have a great life together
2007-02-06 15:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh please, if you're a good person how can a divine being deny you pasage to a good place just because of who you are.
You're going to have to break it to your parents. I can't give you any advice on that. It's all up to you.
I hope you two have a happy life together :)
2007-02-06 15:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by The FudgeMaster 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it makes you happy-----Go for it--It's your life and only you know what will make you happy.When you get older, you'll realize you have to do for yourself.Others will judge and condemn you but we all have things we do that other people will look down on.
2007-02-06 15:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love some one, you dont care if the whole world knows. As far as right or wrong I am not to judge.
2007-02-06 15:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Baker 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2007-02-06 15:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by bruce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno.. it is a sin though...
2007-02-06 15:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by Spoofa 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋