I want to have sex only for reproduction, i want to continue to hug and love her but i worry about birth control because it could be bad for her health, so i think it's better to have sex only for reproduction.
2007-02-06 14:43:58 · 14 answers · asked by Claudio F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what the hell is wrong with you people?
You do realise a relationship is built out of love for one another, not how much you have sex.
Wow..im..gobsmacked.
Look hun, if you dont want to have sex then good on you! Girls complain all the time about "all he wants is sex"...and then someone who doesnt want sex, only to make children comes along and you all bad mouth him? (well the majority) shame on you :O
There is nothing wrong with it, and if your girlfriend cannot respect that, then you need to believe she isnt the one. The one will respect that.
And one day maybe your mind will change. But if it doesnt know that it is okay :)
(noone can tell you whether she will stop loving you...we dont know either of you...)
2007-02-06 15:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by takiah_3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Religion.. Morality....Faith....Upbringing....Beliefs...... It all comes into play when we make up our minds about the whens and whys and hows of sex and growing up..... If YOU believe in waiting until marriage, then you need to stick to your beliefs and feelings..... Sex has very little to do with the real kind of LOVE 2 ppl feel towards each other when it comes time to pick your life mate...... Sex is a SHOWING of the LOVE and COMMITMENT 2 ppl form...... Your are discribing the * if you loved me* syndrome, and usualy it comes from the male side of the relationship..... Sex, if you read the bible is a GIFT from God to humans, it is meant as a special pleasure between male and female, and is NOT meant just for reprpduction purposes...... It takes trust and faith between 2 ppl for sex to mean what it was meant to be !!!!!! What it all boils down to is this, she will wait for you to be ready or go on her way..... If she moves on she never loved you..... that simple............ God bless
2007-02-06 14:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if you don't b0ne her some other dude will. And how will that make you feel.
She for sure won't wait for you because its in a woman's nature these days to get as much c0ck as possible before marriage (don't beleive me, read the girls responses here). So she'll just do it behind your back and then break up with you using the line "we're just not compatible" or some load of dung like that.
2007-02-06 14:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it is her choice to take birth controll or not. But i think you guys should talk about this but if she is for the idea great but if not compromise. But lets look at the facts. So let's hope that she agrees too.
2007-02-06 14:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by ello please answer my questions. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women like this, not everyone is sex addicted, it might be fine , just talk about it , if she loves you SHE LOVES YOU, I wouldnt leave my man just for sex, I am not a man!!!!
2007-02-06 16:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mahkka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly, if ur girlfriend broke up with u because u didn't have sex with her, then shes more shallow than u think. she wont break up with u if she loves u and will respect ur decision not to have sex.
2007-02-06 14:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are Italian and you don't wnat to make love? What kind of Italian are you?
And what is your preoccupation with wood?
Do you like morning wood - are you homo?
2007-02-06 15:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish u good luck in that relationship.....
Hello some one is going to cheat....
2007-02-06 14:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you, sex is for marriage, if she wants sex before marriage, she does nt respect you.....God bless ya
2007-02-06 15:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO... and you dont sound like a very fun date
2007-02-06 14:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by kelly r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋